I met this girl in one of the university music classes. Throughout the course, I developed a strong crush for her and wanted to get to know her more. The problem is, when I like someone, I get very shy around them. The first time I talked to her was when I saw an empty seat next to her; I asked politely if it was taken. She said no, and I sat down. We didn't talk much because our seats were so close to the instructor, but just sitting next to her was a good first step.
The next class I came a bit early, but realized she wasn't there, so I found somewhere to sit. She entered the room, glanced in my direction and sat next to me. During that class, we shared our music sheets. In fact, that day was when she presented her violin to the class. After her performance, I smiled at her and tried to strike up a small conversation by complimenting her violin skill.
From then on, we had small talk, but it was nothing deep. Then finally, it was the last day of class and I still didn't ask for her email. The last class was a bit special because we were allowed to leave once our musical piece was played. I didn't see her come to class until mid-way, but I had to leave to study for a final.
I have never seen her on campus since that day I walked out that door.
I was pretty sad because she was someone I really, really wanted to know better and I let that opportunity slip. I tried countless times to find her on Facebook, but her name never popped into the search.
Over a year passed by and I pretty much gave up. I didn't think I would meet her again, until now.
I was a bit bored and did a random search on her and she was there! All of a sudden, I felt hope. I read her profile and she said she quit Facebook, but left her cell phone number and email! I also realized she had one mutual friend who used to go to high school with me.
I was eager to message her, but stopped. I really don't know how to approach her after over a year or more. Does she still remember me?
Really need some advice from men and women.
The next class I came a bit early, but realized she wasn't there, so I found somewhere to sit. She entered the room, glanced in my direction and sat next to me. During that class, we shared our music sheets. In fact, that day was when she presented her violin to the class. After her performance, I smiled at her and tried to strike up a small conversation by complimenting her violin skill.
From then on, we had small talk, but it was nothing deep. Then finally, it was the last day of class and I still didn't ask for her email. The last class was a bit special because we were allowed to leave once our musical piece was played. I didn't see her come to class until mid-way, but I had to leave to study for a final.
I have never seen her on campus since that day I walked out that door.
I was pretty sad because she was someone I really, really wanted to know better and I let that opportunity slip. I tried countless times to find her on Facebook, but her name never popped into the search.
Over a year passed by and I pretty much gave up. I didn't think I would meet her again, until now.
I was a bit bored and did a random search on her and she was there! All of a sudden, I felt hope. I read her profile and she said she quit Facebook, but left her cell phone number and email! I also realized she had one mutual friend who used to go to high school with me.
I was eager to message her, but stopped. I really don't know how to approach her after over a year or more. Does she still remember me?
Really need some advice from men and women.
