Fight with best friend

[singlemomintx]

Well, this doesn't have to do with my divorce, but there's no women's forum on here anymore, so I was unsure where to post. I've been divorced for awhile and I had developed a close friendship with a woman from my church. We actually met in a lifegroup when I was still married. We had a huge fight last night because she accused me of sleeping with her common-law husband...this after she had slept with a man I was seeing. This is a false accusation and she confronted both me and her boyfriend at the same time...we both told her no, and she didn't believe us. He and I have never even kissed before.

But this woman seems to thrive on drama. She and he have cheated on each other before. I have never cheated or been cheated on. I don't understand it. I'm thinking it is best that I no longer be friends with her? Is this just running away? It upset me that she accused me of this. But her boyfriend says she's mentally ill. She takes anti-depressants and she's an alcoholic. I was always trying to be there for her emotionally...she'd come to talk to me when she had problems.

But this started when she hooked me up with a guy friend of hers, and this is the friend she slept with. I think that occurred because she was jealous of me and him because I can't understand why else that would happen.

 

[Easyk]

ahh alcoholic, there is your answer. its not you it is the alcohol.. hmm it is making her paranoid.. yes i would end the friendship.

 

[singlemomintx]

Yeah, the alcohol and she takes a form of volume in combination with that. But she tried to reconcile yesterday. And she was also going to be my realtor to try and buy a house, but I didn't think she'd have my best interest so I decided to go with a different realtor and she said she'd no longer speak to me, so I realized it wasn't much of a friendship. But I feel more upbeat already since we have not spoken because the friendship was rather draining. I know this is God's will.

 

[epiclesis]

there is a women's forum here, just to let you know.. it's http://www.christianforums.com/f47

 

[singlemomintx]

I couldn't access the women's forum. It says it's diabled

 

[Johnnz]

Let her go. She seems rather scattered and variable. You need people with more to offer as your friends.

John
NZ

 

[singlemomintx]

Thanks for all your advice. I am going to forgive her, but will probably never see her again, because you're all right, she is scattered and not very positive.