- Sep 24, 2018
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- Country
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- Faith
- Christian
- Marital Status
- Engaged
We have been dating for 2 years and engaged for 7 months. In January he had left his phone in my car and he called me to retrieve some phone numbers. I saw a name that looked vaguely familiar and i looked at the texts. They where flirting with each other. I confronted him and he said he was sorry and we made a agreement that if she contacts him again he should say he is in a commited relantionship. Fast forward to 2 days ago. I go over to his place and i pick up his mail. I see a envelope with her name. I did not open it and gave it to him. He tore it up and said he didnt know why she wrote him. Later i take out a small bag of trash and see a part of the letter saying i hope your father is feeling better. Of course she can only know that if they talked in the last month. I confronted him and again he first lied and then he is sorry and he doesnt know why he texted her back. He only texted 1 time and knew it was wrong. He said he thought it would go away if he ignored her texts. He says i never thought of blocking her. Never told me and again did not say he was now engaged. He says he loves me and that he texted her not to contact anymore but he deleted that text and he wanted it to be over. He says he will try and make it up to me and never text her again. My problem he already promised once and now lied to me but worse what if i never saw the card. I cant stop thinking of this. We had such plans for our future and otherwise he is kind and caring. I dont know what to do. I want to believe him but idk. Im so confused. He says he was stupid and bought flowers and candy and apologized numerous times. I have not eaten anything in 2 days and i cry all the time. I cant sleep for more than a couple of hours. I havent told anyone. Should i break of the engagment or try and work it out. Please i prayed on it but i feel so betrayed. Thank you.