I understand the need to be true to scripture which is why I studied it so diligently regarding this particular matter. I'm just curious about these verses that address some of the points raised. Does everyhone here who thinks they're sticking to the bible have church services that run according to this model:
1Co 14:26 Then how is it, brothers? When you come together, each one of you has a psalm, has a teaching, has a tongue, has a revelation, has an interpretation. Let all things be for building up.
1Co 14:27 If one speaks in a language, let it be by two, or at the most three, and in succession. And let one interpret.
1Co 14:28 But if there is no interpreter, let him be silent in a church; and let him speak to himself and to God.
1Co 14:29 And if there are two or three prophets, let them speak, and let the others judge.
1Co 14:30 If a revelation is revealed to another sitting by, let the first be silent.
1Co 14:31 For you may all prophesy one by one, so that all may learn and all may be comforted.
1Co 14:32 And the spirits of the prophets are subject to the prophets.
1Co 14:33 For God is not the author of confusion, but of peace, as in all churches of the saints.
1Co 14:34 Let your women be silent in the churches; for it is not permitted to them to speak, but to be in subjection, as the Law also says.
OR... is it only the last verse that should be applied literally today?
Also - in the model above, which one's the pastor? Apparently it's the one that does the teaching/preaching but I can't tell which one that is in these verses?
Also - when your church gets a new pastor, do you get someone from outside to take over or is it someone from within your congregation that is given the position:
Titus 1:5 For this cause I left you in Crete, that you should set in order the things that are lacking and ordain elders in every city, as I had appointed you,
Titus 1:6 if anyone is blameless, husband of one wife, having believing children, not accused of loose behavior, or disobedient.
Or... is it only the bit about being a husband that needs to be considered literally today?
There's a lot more, but that will do for starters.