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horrible horrible people you are yes this is from my flesh i have sinned to say this. How dare you think that my husband apologised to me and doesnt mean he was wrong in doing so. like I said I do not ever assume wrong or right but I know when I have been hurt. You dreadful person you are. you are extremely cold. what religion do you follow definately not mine.

yes i have sinned now and i will be the judge of this not you

Dramatic totally missed the point again same answer to all your posts I don't even know if he was wrong. WHy? Lack of information.
 
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DOES IT REALLY SOUND LIKE I AM ENJOYING THE ATTENTION I AM QUITE UPSET BY THE ATTENTION because no its not what I expected from CHRISTIAN PEOPLE. I now realise I am there for god and not to trust too many christian people because we are ofcourse not perfect.
you sound controlling to mention that I do not comprehend what you had to say absolutely ridiculous you dont know my professional background and it is obvious we BOTH are on two wave lengths so stop trying to control and get your own way with me because basically this is what it is all about. as my original post has not been addressed just analysed in your thoughts only

and you have thought this to be arguments no its a matter of opinion and disappointment. Maybe you are a young person still with many life lessons to learn and grow as a full person. it only takes time and life skill of how to speak to people
Then why use an emoji?

I don't particularly need to know your profession to comment that you are not comprehensive of the statements I have made a plethora of times.

I say I can't really make judgement due to lack of emotions your husband could be wrong or he could be right based on the information given? Your response is that is a judgement which is the opposite.

Judgement defined as "the ability to make considered decisions or come to sensible conclusions."

Indecision defined as "difficulty in making a decision."

If I state that I can not make a judgement based on the information presented that's called indecision not judgement based on the definition of these two terms.

How is it controlling to state that you do not comprehend what I have wrote when you say that indecision is judgement? What does saying you do not comprehend what I wrote have to do with being controlling?

I certainly did comment on your original post several times, what?

When you say controlling you actually are projecting, you didn't want to hear there was a lack of information to make a sound judgement. I think there is enough evidence to state that, you only wanted comfort I gave you something else and you didn't appreciate that.

Let's look at the evidence. You had a person suggest you call the police for your own safety which several people agreed with, you had a person state that you are holding grudges for days, then you had two people stating they need more information to give you advice. However you feel as though there is nothing lacking in your OP despite the wide range of posts which have been made. Common sense states that there is a lack of information stating so is not a judgement of you or anything it is an observation of your post.

Lacking comprehension doesn't mean I am trying to control you, it means you clearly don't understand a single thing I've posted.

You have several different responses all of which you are saying isn't what you are talking about or your situation..................but I need to learn how to talk to people?

I've wasted enough time on you good day.
 
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Then why use an emoji?

I don't particularly need to know your profession to comment that you are not comprehensive of the statements I have made a plethora of times.

I say I can't really make judgement due to lack of emotions your husband could be wrong or he could be right based on the information given? Your response is that is a judgement which is the opposite.

Judgement defined as "the ability to make considered decisions or come to sensible conclusions."

Indecision defined as "difficulty in making a decision."

If I state that I can not make a judgement based on the information presented that's called indecision not judgement based on the definition of these two terms.

How is it controlling to state that you do not comprehend what I have wrote when you say that indecision is judgement? What does saying you do not comprehend what I wrote have to do with being controlling?

I certainly did comment on your original post several times, what?

When you say controlling you actually are projecting, you didn't want to hear there was a lack of information to make a sound judgement. I think there is enough evidence to state that, you only wanted comfort I gave you something else and you didn't appreciate that.

Let's look at the evidence. You had a person suggest you call the police for your own safety which several people agreed with, you had a person state that you are holding grudges for days, then you had two people stating they need more information to give you advice. However you feel as though there is nothing lacking in your OP despite the wide range of posts which have been made. Common sense states that there is a lack of information stating so is not a judgement of you or anything it is an observation of your post.

Lacking comprehension doesn't mean I am trying to control you, it means you clearly don't understand a single thing I've posted.

You have several different responses all of which you are saying isn't what you are talking about or your situation..................but I need to learn how to talk to people?

I've wasted enough time on you good day.



deleted I have actually tried to close this thread. as i have receied the advise and comfort asked for
 
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Dramatic totally missed the point again same answer to all your posts I don't even know if he was wrong. WHy? Lack of information.


If you cannot be nice to anyone get off this forum. I have noticed sarcasim from you on other pages before you totally understand Avniel the full story. just block me or something I have no intentions of wanting to hear about your intimidating OPINIONS now goodbye do NOT CONTINUE TO CONTACT ME ENOUGH SAID

no one needs to know whether he was wrong I asked for comfort on this site that is all. you have shown me what sort of person you really are through your words you may be right in some instances though you are taking this way too far...but out
 
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If you cannot be nice to anyone get off this forum. I have noticed sarcasim from you on other pages before you totally understand Avniel the full story. just block me or something I have no intentions of wanting to hear about your intimidating OPINIONS now goodbye do NOT CONTINUE TO CONTACT ME ENOUGH SAID

no one needs to know whether he was wrong I asked for comfort on this site that is all. you have shown me what sort of person you really are through your words you may be right in some instances though you are taking this way too far...but out

Now I'm I have an intimidating opinion, how on earth can an opinion intimidate a person? I've never met a person with an intimidating opinion nor do I know a person that has ever made such a comment.

Very simple don't quote me.
 
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If you cannot be nice to anyone get off this forum. I have noticed sarcasim from you on other pages before you totally understand Avniel the full story. just block me or something I have no intentions of wanting to hear about your intimidating OPINIONS now goodbye do NOT CONTINUE TO CONTACT ME ENOUGH SAID

no one needs to know whether he was wrong I asked for comfort on this site that is all. you have shown me what sort of person you really are through your words you may be right in some instances though you are taking this way too far...but out

I certainly know several people that feel like I am nice. The way you handled valley was horrible, she was just trying to help you. Before you worry about how I interacted with you look back at your interactions with others.
 
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I.... but.... huh....how....

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Seeing as the OP has stated in post #103 that they have tried to close the thread we have decided to keep this thread closed. With lots of Flaming going on it was better to just keep the thread closed instead of trying to clean it.
 
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