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Tsaxgurl317

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hey guys....
I could use some prayer, cause i'm really feeling like a failure, because i can't meet everyone's expectations of what I should be. It's like no one understands that I'm human too and they expect me to do all this stuff and I just can't. I feel really overwhelmed, I've lived here for 7 months and still don't have any friends, and the few friends I still have from where I used to live just don't understand anymore. I'm failing misribly in school where I'd always done good in the past so my parents are on my back all the time. Nothing is fun for me anymore, it's all just work and no fun, and the fun I do have i probably shouldn't have. I'm just so close to giving up on it all, I don't feel like it's worth it anymore if it's going to drive me down into nothing in the process. I've gotten to where I lie to those close to me to make it seem like things are better than they are and make me look like i'm ok but on the inside i feel like i'm gonna break and die any minute. I just don't know what to do anymore. Please pray for me....
 

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i know what you mean when you say you feel like a failure, i have definitely felt that too. and i'm so sorry you are going through that. i pray that God will help you to find that passion for life again. if you ever feel like talking, you can always PM or e-mail me. i would love to talk to you. keep smiling gurl=D
 
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Tsaxgurl317 said:
hey guys....
I could use some prayer, cause i'm really feeling like a failure, because i can't meet everyone's expectations of what I should be. It's like no one understands that I'm human too and they expect me to do all this stuff and I just can't. I feel really overwhelmed, I've lived here for 7 months and still don't have any friends, and the few friends I still have from where I used to live just don't understand anymore. I'm failing misribly in school where I'd always done good in the past so my parents are on my back all the time. Nothing is fun for me anymore, it's all just work and no fun, and the fun I do have i probably shouldn't have. I'm just so close to giving up on it all, I don't feel like it's worth it anymore if it's going to drive me down into nothing in the process. I've gotten to where I lie to those close to me to make it seem like things are better than they are and make me look like i'm ok but on the inside i feel like i'm gonna break and die any minute. I just don't know what to do anymore. Please pray for me....
Hey there!! I know what you mean when you put on a smile like everythings going great, but you feel so empty inside. That is a HORRID way to feel and be. I struggle with this too, so it would be like the blind leading the blind for me to give you advise here, lol. But just know you are not alone in struggling with these things.
 
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Whit, I am praying for you...Stay strong, and when you feel alone, that nobody cares, know that, that is just a lie from the pit of hell and that everyone cares for you. Do you read your Bible, every day? If not, give that a try, you might start feeling better, just getting into the Word, of Truth.. The Word of God!
I will continue to pray for you Whit.
 
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