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Sunset2009
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Do any of you have young children that have fears? Whether it's of storms, dogs, flying insects, or weird things like grass.
I can completely understand some fears. Like storms, which is something that should be feared, or, moreso to take extreme caution of. If your area is prone to tornados, it could be a matter of life and death. But flying insects? Most animals?
I have a 4-year old niece who is DEATHLY afraid of dogs. When she sees one, or comes close to one, her screams literally sound like her head is being sliced off with a chizzle. It is amazingly inappropriate and immature (you might say "She's just a child! Of course she's afraid!" You'd agree with me if you ever witnessed one of her fits). She is also a very insecure child though, as her sisters are nothing like this (1 older sister, 1 younger sister, both had a much different upbringing).
I guess the point of this thread is, where do you believe fears in children come from? I believe that a lot of time, children are taught by their parents to fear things. (Not like "Johnny, there's a fly, be afraid!") but if a child sees a parent freak out over something, they will kind of learn, "Oh, that's something I need to panic over." I'm sure that is not the case with all fears though.
Do you believe that children who have fears (again, not small fears, or fears about things that are completely understandable, but big fears over really ridiculously harmless things) have security issues? What's your take? And is it important to you to teach your children not to be afraid of anything?
I can completely understand some fears. Like storms, which is something that should be feared, or, moreso to take extreme caution of. If your area is prone to tornados, it could be a matter of life and death. But flying insects? Most animals?
I have a 4-year old niece who is DEATHLY afraid of dogs. When she sees one, or comes close to one, her screams literally sound like her head is being sliced off with a chizzle. It is amazingly inappropriate and immature (you might say "She's just a child! Of course she's afraid!" You'd agree with me if you ever witnessed one of her fits). She is also a very insecure child though, as her sisters are nothing like this (1 older sister, 1 younger sister, both had a much different upbringing).
I guess the point of this thread is, where do you believe fears in children come from? I believe that a lot of time, children are taught by their parents to fear things. (Not like "Johnny, there's a fly, be afraid!") but if a child sees a parent freak out over something, they will kind of learn, "Oh, that's something I need to panic over." I'm sure that is not the case with all fears though.
Do you believe that children who have fears (again, not small fears, or fears about things that are completely understandable, but big fears over really ridiculously harmless things) have security issues? What's your take? And is it important to you to teach your children not to be afraid of anything?