Is there a standard set of days with fasting exceptions on the calendar? I noticed a difference between my church calendar (physical, sold in our parish bookstore) and the calendar app I use. If the schedule isn't standard across jurisdictions, at what level is it standardized (by calendar, by jurisdiction, by diocese)?
Also, on days with fasting exceptions, is it generally better not to make use of them if you don't need to, or should they be viewed more in the sense that the Church (at whatever level these exceptions are set) knows better than we do when we need a break?
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@jas3 my friend forgive the question, but you’ve been asking about this, and about canonical penalties, and multiple name days - I went through a phase after my conversion where I became kind of legalistic, and this was a confusion (and as a result of it I came dangerously close to joining a schismatic Old Believer church).
I just want to make sure you’re not worried that you aren’t doing Orthodoxy correctly. It’s a bad idea to be disturbed by books and things like fasting differences between jurisdictions; the rubrics vary between churches and in Orthodoxy the church meets the needs of its members, rather than vice versa, because the church after all is the mystical Body of Christ, and Christ loves us so much that he did literally die in order to procure our salvation and glorification, so that we could become by grace what He is by nature.
So I just wanted to check to make sure you’re not experiencing any of what I experienced, which is fairly common among neophytes.
I would recommend, instead of reading a manual of confession or worrying about fasting rules, that you focus on prayer, and if you want to read, read the liturgy, which is now completely available online, including the complete propers for all holy days, in multiple editions. I believe I sent you some material on that.
One thing you might consider doing, if your confessor gives his blessing, would be that you read the Vespers and Matins for each upcoming Sunday, and other liturgies that your parish is celebrating, or perhaps, alternately, for any interesting feasts your parish would celebrate but is unable to for lack of resources, for example, the feast of St. Panteleimon or St. Elias, which are popular but not universally celebrated. Then perhaps post an essay with your thoughts on the hymns for that liturgy here in The Ancient Way. I would do this myself but am not well enough physically. I have lately been recovering, but after the spider incident last week I’ve been feeling much less well.