Yes, nobody saves themselves. But they can still refuse to be saved
Let's recognize that God hasn't slated everyone to see "like me or you" in this present life.
We do know for a hard scriptural fact that people are blinded and stolen from by Satan. So where is your factor for that? Why do you blame the captives and ignore the chief thief in these matters? Had God Himself not pulled back the curtain of Satan for YOU or I, neither of us would have seen. We'd still be an ignorant pawn of the prince of the power of the air, the spirit of disobedience. That would be Satan. Acts 26:18, 2 Cor. 4:4, Eph. 2:2
Further, do you think our battles with Satan actually decreased after we were "saved?" Uh, no. These engagements increase. We are not the only party in play within us. We still have understanding and Word stolen from within us, theft being a sin. Temptation is internal and of the tempter. Evil lawless thoughts come from within and these DO defile us. Mark 4:15, Mark 7:21-25 and many others likewise.
Your positions simply bypass the other party out of ignorance. Nothing personal. It's the gaping hole with most of these various splits and theories.
preferring themselves over God as Adam did
Again and again, you fail to recognize the role of our adversary in Adam and Eve and only blame and accuse them.
Adam was God's son. Luke 3:38. He was also the flesh progenitor of our Lord. I'd have a little more respect and not "count sins" against him. And in any case of sights God has absolutely ZERO intentions of leaving Adam stranded in a wet dust pile forever. He was bound, like all people are, with weakness, corruption, dishonor in a natural body that is subject to termination. 1 Cor. 15:42-46
For the record, I don't even think it's you making the various gaffes of leaving out the enemy from these pictures. Who is doing it should be obvious