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JAKG said:
For the married folks:

I'm sorry to disappoint you if you wanted to submit crushes... but I am not comfortable with even fantasy games where married folks pretend to have crushes on someone other than their spouse. If I was married I would not want to have a fantasy crush on someone other than my wife and I would not want my wife to do so either. This is just my personal view of things, but since I'm kind of running this particular game I'm just going to say that I will not knowingly honor a crush request from a married person. Sorry.

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I was going to have the moderator remove my post, because I was so embarassed about the mistake. But, after reading the following posts and your comments, I couldn't really do that anymore. I had to set the record straight.

When you originally posted this thread, you represented it as a game. Where people would say who they thought went together. I didn't realize that you intended your "game" to be an on-line dating service for the single people here to make real "romantic" connections. And I'm extremely embarassed that you would assume that because I misunderstood your representation of what this thread was (which at that point, had not yet been made clear) that I or any of the other married people here could possibly be the type of people who had that type of character.

I think You owe all of us married people an apology for misrepresenting the intention of this thread, and implying that we are not as honorable as you, in your post. Your post reads that it was meant to shame.

People know me here John. My honor is, and always has been above reproach. My marriage is stronger than oak. And even if I found a man here that I had enough in common with to form an attachment with, I wouldn't be so foolish as to take any chances of hurting my husband or my children!

I trust that if you're half the man you represent yourself to be, you will make this right.

No doubt, someone will say, "Aw, it's not a big deal...he didn't mean it" Why make such a big deal about it?" But, this is my honor John. And I don't take that lightly.
 
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