So both are submitting, but one is submitting MORE. Whatev.
Whatev?
Ask Jesus then why He "mistakenly" gives the male headship when they're both mutually submissive. If that's contradictory to you, then you're free to take God to task on it.
I think it's real clear:
1 Corinthians 11:3
But I want you to understand that Christ is the head of every man,
and the man is the head of a woman, and God is the head of Christ.
The same Greek word [
kephale] is used for head in this verse. In the same way that Christ is head of every man, the man is head of his wife. [
gune/aner]. This doesn't look to me like it's 100% equality in positional authority - one is over the other in an authoratative/positional sense.
And once again, people are viewing it negatively as if its something bad... but in the same way, Christ is submissive positionally to the Father (both being equal as God).
What is so horrific and evil about that?
(
I submit that it's our human nature that rebels against authority placed over people).
You can argue that till the cows come home, but it wont' change anything. If she isn't even given positional authority in her home, why is God going to give that to her over His flock - and worse, if her husband part of that flock where she becomes a spiritual authoratative figure.
Um, interestingly, in that same passage Peter exhorts husbands to regard their wives as "fellow" (i.e. common, equal) heirs of the grace of life, and to treat them with "honor" -- the same word he (assuming the "real" Peter actually authored both of his eponymous epistles) used in 2 Pet. 1:17 to characterize the words the Father spoke from Heaven in regard to Jesus at the Transfiguration.
Please see above, it doesn't wash.
& here's another verse that supports the position:
1 Pet. 3
5 For in this manner, in former times, the holy women who trusted in God also adorned themselves, being submissive to their own husbands,
6 as Sarah obeyed Abraham, calling him lord, whose daughters you are if you do good and are not afraid with any terror.
But of course you've heard ad nauseum our position that "help mate" or "help meet" is not a good translation of that part of Genesis.
Either way, she was created OUT OF Adam and becuz God decided that it wasnt' good for him to be alone (even the animals had others of their own kind). Adam was the prototype, and she was custom created FOR him.
So..... people can speculate what they will.
For now, I'm going to choose to believe that you are just making a general ranting statement, and not specifically accusing ME of being guided by "self will," "secular modernism," etc., and NOT being guided by the Holy Spirit.
Good becuz I wasn't accusing you of that - I had radical femenists more in mind and people with rebellion issues who overstep balance into dominance and usurpation/supplantation.
Imho, people too often comingle dominance with headship and the 2 are not near the same. This always gets thrust into an equality issue (a battle of the sexes) when it's got nothing to do with that. Equality of male & female are established at creation.
Do you really not see that many times the "clear" and "simple" message of one passage contradicts that of another? I'm not being a smart-aleck, I'm sincere.
Yes, I agree with you here. Absolutely. And that thought came into my mind when I made my reply (as an argument that could be used as a rebuttal to my statement lol) -
sometimes I say things even tho I've thought the rebuttal thru - but that's becuz the statement can still be true with merit even tho it has a rebuttal.
*head spins* rofl
Anyways, my point is this, with so many conflicting viewpoints, how in the world does anyone show the world they have answers thru Christ WHEN NO ONE AGREES ON ANYTHING and it all resounds in utter chaotic confusion as the novice plods along reading all of it?
Truly, salvation is a PURE work of God and a miracle, becuz mankind is a sorry example - an inferior example of who God is and what God teaches.
It's no wonder too in our postmodern era that people are flocking to experience and "focus on living" than doctrine. What's the point in doctrine when nothing can be agreed upon by God's own people???
I find it sad and scary. Thankfully my full trust is in God

- not people.
Twenty-some years ago, I was a relatively young believer and belonged to a Pentecostal church that held "Word-Faith" beliefs. I occasionally noticed that their "proof-texts" did not quite fit the context, or did not mesh with other Scriptures unless one passage or the other was bent and forced to fit; but they'd been around in the Lord longer than I, so for several years I just assumed they knew what they were talking about. Eventually (the details don't matter for the purpose of this discussion), I saw too many inconsistencies and incompatibilities. I ended up scrutinizing almost everything I'd been taught there. I quickly rejected almost all the Word-Faith doctrines. I ended up with a Pneumatology that is sort of stuck between Pentecostal and Charismatic. I flirted briefly with Calvinist Soteriology, but quickly returned to something essentially Arminian. And of course I changed my stance on gender hierarchy. But in sorting all that out, I could not help but see that many passages do not "mesh" well without one or all being "molded" at least somewhat.
Well, I could point out that in your chronic teetering btwn. beliefs, it's you that has the understanding issues becuz you kept changing and you believe you were wrong in your views to have to resort to others....
lol
You could again decide you're currently wrong now and change them all again in the future...
I flirt w/ Calvanism - in fact I lean towards it, but I can't ultimately shed the idea of some choice being on our part, otherwise God does truly create the majority to perish eternally. I don't consider that evil, I just don't believe God did it that way. Thankfully that doesn't matter in the big picture where confusion lies -
when it comes to church structure & practical application of God's principles in our every-day lives,
we DO need to know right and wrong - if God forbids female Shepherds.
We don't want to hinder God's possible calling for women, AND we don't want to put women in positions He forbids.
BOTH would be very terrible.
That's what I"m referring to when I say, WHY CAN'T WE FIND SCRIPTURE CLEAR ON THIS? It's vital and it should be simple.
Calvanism & many other doctrines don't directly affect our way of life and standards in the church or hinder God's work or will.
If we can't even figure this one out, I worry for the church