horseluva42792
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I think we all learned a lesson from this: Don't get a pet if you can't handle it.
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If they'd put the cat to sleep for just urinating, that'd be one thing, but according to the article, toward the end there the cat was behaving extremely neurotically as well.
To the people who are so angry at this author: what would you have done with a cat that was behaving like that, vacillating between howling, hiding, and peeing in inappropriate places - how would you have rehabilitated this cat?
I do not believe that is pleasing to God and actually borders on idol worship! Totally irrational as well.
If folks read AwashInLove's posts about expecting the worst in any adopted pet, then no one with a speck of sense would EVER adopt one! Who wants to be out all that money on vet bills to correct a problem? Or all that unsanitary filth in their bed and around their house! That is disgusting! I think a potentional owner has a right to expect a healthy pet,not some animal that has serious physical or mental problems that actually deem it unfit to be a pet.
But no,some people think if you adopt a pet it is like a human instead of an animal and you are stuck with the responsibility for life! I say that is pure nonsense! Some animals will never make a suitable pet due to any number of factors and that most certainly is not the fault nor the responsibility of some adoptive family who comes along later hoping to give it a home!![]()
and I hope...that if you do have children, as this author does, that their welfare comes before your pets' welfare...it's easy to devote yourself fulltime to your pets if you don't have children to worry about.
My folks simply taught me that commitment is commitment, accepting responsibility is far from the easy way out, and as keepers of nature we must be respectful (and I thank my Father for parents who taught me these loving lessons).Charon said:In 2 Sam 12 , the prophet Nathan tells King David a story about a poor man's pet lamb to convict David of his sin with Bathsheba.
The poor man nourished the lamb up with his real children, and it ate of his food, drank of his cup, laid in his bosom, and became like a daughter to him. When a rich man killed the lamb, King David decreed that the rich man must not only pay compensation, the Mosaic law penalty, but should also be put to death.
Dogs
Dogs were not kept as pets in Israel, where they were considered unclean, though they were looked on fondly in Egypt..
Unlike Jews, Greeks had pet dogs which were allowed to eat crumbs off the table - cf Mt 15.26, Mk 7.27.
Jesus understood this, and accepted it. Now will you?
I do not consider the incident of dogs being "allowed" to eat crumbs off the floor ,the same as a cared for and loved pet!soblessed53 said:I mean just to think of a child crawling/playing on a "germ-ridden" carpet,that pets have urinated and pooped on,gives me the willies! And the animal hair EVERYWHERE!
I mean just to think of a child crawling/playing on a "germ-ridden" carpet,that pets have urinated and pooped on,gives me the willies! And the animal hair EVERYWHERE!
I think it's another example of irresponsible pet ownership, and does not say much for these folks. Assume the worst before adoption, and if you can't handle it don't follow through.
ForgivenToo said:I love animals. I have 2 cats. There was a time when one of them had a problem with the litter box, i worked with him, yes. But if the day had come that it was just too much i would have had to find another place for him. Most people don't want an animal that isn't "well behaved" and you can't blame them. You spend thousands of dollars a year on food, litter, toys, vet appointments. You should expect them to behave properly. Most medical conditions animals come up with are expensive to treat, you figure, you get a free cat, feed it love it care for it, then something beyond your control asks you to spend $500 on a urinary tract infection. Why make the animal suffer if it is unhappy? Why make your family suffer if the cat isn't working out and no one wants it? Putting them down is sometimes neccessary, you can't get mad about that.
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awashinlove said:Well if you have the inability to clean you shouldn't have a pet. Most people don't even realize right away that there are animals in my home, especially not the numbers that fosters will often put me, because I am thorough. Why on earth would someone keep carpet with feces and urine on it? That's not just unhealthy for children, but all living things down to plants are harmed. I think those are rare cases, and have nothing to do with this article nor most pet owners.
Kudos to horseluva42792 for getting it.
And I know for a fact that you all don't go ripping up and replacing your carpets, even after they have been pooped and peed on NUMEROUS times! And this is ALL pet owners! Well maybe,with the exception of Bill Gate's family if they even have pets.And I know for a fact that you all don't go ripping up and replacing your carpets, even after they have been pooped and peed on NUMEROUS times! And this is ALL pet owners!
In theory, it sounds like a good plan.
But consider this: many cat owners, who now treat their cats kindly and give them a good home, would still not be willing to spend thousands of dollars or a huge amount of effort, to keep a difficult cat they'd adopted without knowing its problems. Suppose now that these cat owners followed your advice and decided not to adopt cats at all, because they didn't want to take the (slim) chance of getting one which was too difficult.
Also consider that will always be heartless people who get cats and then just abandon them or turn them in at a shelter for no good reason aside from the fact that they're tired of having a cat. So what happens to all these friendly, easy-to-care-for cats that have been abandoned and need new homes?
...Suddenly, many of the previously mentioned people --who might have been able to provide a great home for a the average friendly and clean cat-- just don't want to adopt anymore, because they're afraid they'll end up with a cat they can't deal with.
So now we have thousands --or millions-- of well-behaved cats who need homes, but there aren't enough homes for them anymore, because everyone's suddenly afraid that they'll end up with one they can't deal with, and they know they'll be criticized for not spending thousands of dollars if they end up with a difficult cat.
Voila. Suddenly the problem of homeless cats has just become much worse.
So I'm going to have to strongly disagree with your statement about adoption.
This all leads to a very simple question: are cats better off...
1) being homeless in a shelter, or
2) in a home with owners who love them and treat them kindly, but would have them euthanized if their behavior became too difficult to handle and they couldn't find another home?
For a lot of cats, these are the only two options.
I'm not stupid enough to be saying the pee and poop IS still sitting there,[even though I have even seen that]HOWEVER the germs are!
And I know for a fact that you all don't go ripping up and replacing your carpets, even after they have been pooped and peed on NUMEROUS times! And this is ALL pet owners!