Well, first of all, evolutionists certainly do not believe that humans evolved from apes, but rather that all primates including apes and humans have a common anscestor. I personally do not remember all of the information, but I studied it a few years ago because I began to see that the weight of evidence was on the side of evolution and not creation.
I can understand the deep desire to be a seperate and unique creation, because that is what makes it possible for us to have a relationship with God. However a realization that humans are an evolved species does not have to change our uniqueness. The overall message in Scripture is about a God of justice and love who brings the reconcilliation of those two characteristics in the sacrifice of His Son.
I know it is difficult to understand at what point people became creatures that have a relationship with God, but our responsibility is to understand the science that we have, which is not religious, and to have a child-like understanding of our relationship with God. Science can only produce facts, not spiritual truth. Science cannot explain to us what God was doing during evolution, but I have seen the evidence, and one of two things is true. We either evolved or God created the world to look like we did. We have found enough and seen enough, and have enough current microevolution going on around us to support the theory. This is why it is accepted among the majority of scientists around the world.
I find nothing wrong with admitting to a lack of understanding about God's original plan, but I do not find that lack of understanding important, because Scripture does not make it important. The importance of Genesis is obviously the uniqueness of man and God's special relationship with him. Scripture does not spend a great deal of time focusing on creation other than to say that God did it, and that we are the part of it that has a special relationship with him. God does not go into details about the creation of angels, other planets, start, asteroids, meteors, and other astrological and spiritual creations, yet they are. That means that its not the point. The point is the relationship.
However, I understand the need for proof, so I found a website that has a listing of all found fossils, the research behind them, and the creationists objections to them. I thought you might find it interesting.
It's called talkorigns dot org forward slash faqs forward slash homs forward slash specimen dot html.
they don't let us post websties, so I tried to put it in this way