The problem with the theory of evolution (and this is going to be a long post so please forgive me), is that it cannot be proven, it does not match the facts as completely as it *could*, and it leaves God out of the equation (a major problem for a Christian).
If evolution were true, there would be:
a) missing links
b) lots of missing links
Presumably you mean transitional fossils, since links that are missing are not very interesting. Yes, there are transitional fossils, and yes there are lots of them.
c) significant differences in the species we observe today and those in the fossil record detailed as 'millions of years ago'
You should read up on the history of geology. Geologists discovered that certain fossils were consistently found in certain rock layers long before Darwin's time. Life on Earth has changed enormously over time. For example, there were no land plants at all before around 425 million years ago, no insects before 400 mya, no amphibians before 380 mya. There were no dinosaurs before 230 mya, and none (excepting birds) after 65 mya. I'd say those are quite significant changes.
d) it defies belief - the statistical probability that this universe exists in all it's complexity might as well be zero. It is completely improbable. Evolution is the most improbable theory to generate this universe. At least the belief that God created it as is... implies a probability greater than zero.
I'm sorry, but this is not an argument, and it's not about evolution. Evolution explains changes to life; it has nothing to say about the probability that the universe exists.
e) Evolution requires death - a major problem for me particularly because of the 'waste' and the invalidation of God's punishment (you can't have temporal become eternal).
That's a problem for you, but it's not a problem for evolution as a scientific theory.
f) The assumption of millions of years to create fossils is impossible. There are fossils between layers of rocks that have supposedly different ages differring by millions of years. Fossils are created in seconds (otherwise fish swallowing other fish simply wouldn't be found). The eruption of Mt St Helens proved this (but has been conveniently ignored).
There is no assumption that it takes millions of years to create fossils. Fossils (which are any kind of trace left by the distant past) can be created overnight -- they're just not called fossils unless they're quite old. Fossil footprints, for example, are created very quickly.
Could you provide some examples of the fossils that span strata separated by millions of years? As for Mount St. Helens, geologists are well aware of what volcanic eruptions look like in the geological record, and there are many of them.
g) Time dating (of any kind) depends on the assumptions made about the state of being at the time of dating. Using exactly the same data, but different starting assumptions can result in ages ranging from a few hundred years to a few million years.
What assumptions are you talking about? What assumptions are made in isochron dating, for example?
h) dinosaurs and humans existed at the same time... yet all evolutionary theory has this as impossible.
Dinosaurs and humans did not exist at the same time. Even most creationist organizations won't traffic in the alleged "proofs" that they did.
i) evolutionary theory cannot explain the formation of the 'perfect' galaxy for life nor the perfect distance of the earth from the sun, the existance of the moon, and all the other millions and billions of "little" things which add up to make life possible on earth. If any which one of them were missed.... life wouldn't exist.
Quite true. Evolutionary theory also cannot explain the orbit of Mercury. In both cases it can't because it doesn't try. Once again, evolution doesn't say anything about the structure or nature of the universe. All it does is describe how life changes over time.
j) evolution doesn't have a purpose.
Neither do most observed scientific phenomena.
Because it's possible. Why grow? Why fall down? Why erode? What do these questions even mean?
are we still evolving now?
Yes.
how come things are getting worse and not better? if things keep getting worse now, how can we conclude that things somehow got better to arrive at this point? Wouldn't it make more sense to think that we started at perfection and deteriorated?!
What are you talking about? What biological things are getting worse? Other than the mass extinction currently being caused by humans, that is.