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Evicting the enemy

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We're having a bad time evicting my wife's grandson who dabbles in the occult, or at one time has. He knows the criminal justice says in, out, upside down, and sideways. We can't keep up with him.
We spent $1500 on a lawyer. After the money was gone, he revealed evidence that would get us laughed out of the court room should we had proceed. He's always one step ahead of us. He enjoys shouting obscenities at my 66 year old wife. We don't know what to do. God, and your prayers, are our only hope. Thank you, and God bless you.
 

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We're having a bad time evicting my wife's grandson w
He enjoys shouting obscenities at my 66 year old wife.

You have a tenacy agreement with him?
Tell him to leave by a date. call in favours from your church and move his stuff out, change the locks.

He does not have the right to live in your home.
Do ensure that you have dated recordings of his conversaton/shouting at your wife.

Only other advice is get a better lawyer who can ensure he moves out.

The only lawyer I've employed some twelve years ago charged £200:00 per hour, we won.

So pick a good lawyer, or no win no fee lawyer and let him loose, but get an idea of how long/how much and pay it.
 
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We're having a bad time evicting my wife's grandson who dabbles in the occult, or at one time has. He knows the criminal justice says in, out, upside down, and sideways. We can't keep up with him.
We spent $1500 on a lawyer. After the money was gone, he revealed evidence that would get us laughed out of the court room should we had proceed. He's always one step ahead of us. He enjoys shouting obscenities at my 66 year old wife. We don't know what to do. God, and your prayers, are our only hope. Thank you, and God bless you.

If he is underage, you can get him into a program possibly.

Father, please help this family and work in situation. Thank You that You know everything going on and are working things together for the good. Please strengthen this family and comfort them. In Jesus Name, Amen.
 
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We're having a bad time evicting my wife's grandson who dabbles in the occult, or at one time has. He knows the criminal justice says in, out, upside down, and sideways. We can't keep up with him.
We spent $1500 on a lawyer. After the money was gone, he revealed evidence that would get us laughed out of the court room should we had proceed. He's always one step ahead of us. He enjoys shouting obscenities at my 66 year old wife. We don't know what to do. God, and your prayers, are our only hope. Thank you, and God bless you.

Abba Father, We thank you for this dear brother and his wife. We thank you that you are fighting our battles. Lord, you've won the victory over every enemy for us. Please cover this dear brother and his dear wife in your loving hands. May they be strengthened in their inner being and walk in your victory. We also pray for the deliverance of their grandson from all evil. May your kingdom come and your peace reign in their heart. In the mighty name of Yeshua who will soon crush the enemy under our feet, I pray this. Amen.
 
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If he is underage, you can get him into a program possibly.

Father, please help this family and work in situation. Thank You that You know everything going on and are working things together for the good. Please strengthen this family and comfort them. In Jesus Name, Amen.
Thank you for always.praying for us. You're very kind and supportive. My wife and I are grateful.
 
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Abba Father, We thank you for this dear brother and his wife. We thank you that you are fighting our battles. Lord, you've won the victory over every enemy for us. Please cover this dear brother and his dear wife in your loving hands. May they be strengthened in their inner being and walk in your victory. We also pray for the deliverance of their grandson from all evil. May your kingdom come and your peace reign in their heart. In the mighty name of Yeshua who will soon crush the enemy under our feet, I pray this. Amen.
 
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We're having a bad time evicting my wife's grandson who dabbles in the occult, or at one time has. He knows the criminal justice says in, out, upside down, and sideways. We can't keep up with him.
We spent $1500 on a lawyer. After the money was gone, he revealed evidence that would get us laughed out of the court room should we had proceed. He's always one step ahead of us. He enjoys shouting obscenities at my 66 year old wife. We don't know what to do. God, and your prayers, are our only hope. Thank you, and God bless you.
 
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You have a tenacy agreement with him?
Tell him to leave by a date. call in favours from your church and move his stuff out, change the locks.

He does not have the right to live in your home.
Do ensure that you have dated recordings of his conversaton/shouting at your wife.

Only other advice is get a better lawyer who can ensure he moves out.

The only lawyer I've employed some twelve years ago charged £200:00 per hour, we won.

So pick a good lawyer, or no win no fee lawyer and let him loose, but get an idea of how long/how much and pay it.
 
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Thank you for replying...I guess evicting him is difficult because he's difficult. Many people would have left when they got the letter from our attorney. Cameron told us, loud and clear, he will make us spend every penny it takes to get him out. The court system, here in North Florida, seem to move a little slowly. Eventually, a couple of Deputies will drag him out of here, and place his possessions by the end of the driveway. The waiting is the hardest part.
I think about Job. When he was hurting, one statement was ...In all things let the Name of the Lord be praised. I feel the same.
God bless you.
 
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Thank you for your support, William J. Your prayers are appreciated. When Job was not doing to good he said"....... Blessed be the Name of the LORD" ( Job 1:21). I hope and pray to have this attitude in our dilemma.
I pray that God would give you a path out of having to live with this abusive young man.
 
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