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Ethan's here

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I got up at 6pm, contrax every 5 min. Went to hospital got there at 7....Doc decided to "observe" me as I'd done this 3 times before. I breathed through the contrax until 8-9pm, when they were every 2-3 minutes and I couldn't handle it as well. Was going to get the pain stuff when the nurses come rushing in, the monitors said Ethan's heart rate was dropping. On my back I got, 7 tries later, an IV is started, oxygen etc. I end up on my right side not allowed to move as this is the only way to keep his heart rate out of the teens. They let me have half a shot of something because I couldn't move but being in pain I couldn't help but not move. I was checked and was 7 and fully thinned. Lots of doctors were called, the head nurse was thinking C-Section to get the baby out in time. While waiting for the doc, which took a whole Trek ep, I went to 10. The shot didn't was sleepy stuff to keep me calm - I couldn't feel my tongue. They broke my water at some point, that didn't hurt.

The doc came in he wanted me to push and I wanted to to. They said it wasn't working. The head nurse wanted to do a C-Section. I said no get me up off my back so I can push and I can do it. The OB agreed I could try. So up I got, given something to pull on, given a place to hook my feet into which helpped and I pushed. Ah much better. Pushing felt so good, it helped with the pain. Waiting for a contraction was the worst part.

The doctor noticed he was stuck. Really stuck and I had to blow through three contractions while he reached in and felt. Apparently what should have been smooth was ridged and he was stuck but we could do it. Ethan's heart dropped again and so did mine. The doc said he had to cut me and reach in and help pull the baby up and over as I push. He gave me a local for that and that's when I finally screamed(the nurses pointed this out I was consintrating not worrying if I made noise) I mean this man had both hands up to his wrists in my hoo hoo pushing and twisting Ethan, up until then it wasn't mind blowing I can't handle it pain. It took over an hour but Ethan was born at 2:18 purple and they rushed him off and made him cry etc to get him to breath.

My placenta had detached they don't know from him being stuck or from the placenta trouble they know I had. It came out it pieces which made them keep me on pitocin for 6 hours and had to keep pushing on my belly to get all the bits out.

Being sewed up after was the worst part, the worst, except for the sleepy stuff and the local I was pain med free. I felt the sewing. Yeah, icky! 28 stitches later, I was sewed up. I got to have Ethan. They made me try and breastfeed but he was too mad(they poked him with a needle until he cried several times, I'd be upset too) so I told them to take him, let us sleep for a while and come at it when we're both not overly excited etc.

Of course my MIL kept saying "He'll starve bottle feed!" but Ron was good about kicking her out, which they would have any way. 3 doctors and 12 nurses were around for Ethan's birth - we caused many nurses to have to take overtime. When he came back after we were both better and he nurses pretty well once I learned he likes football hold best.

Apparently between my placenta and my pelvis, it stressed my poor baby out. He's here now.
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So far I know he hates being unwrapped the tighter the better. He only cries when I have to change him or he's hungry. He eats well but I think the hospital 3 hour thing won't work, not only does it make him not go to the bathroom enough but he's too upset to eat, every 1.5-2.5 hours is when it's best. Waiting until 3 usually makes it twice as difficult as he's telling the whole world he doesn't like to be kept waiting.

I'm healing well. The pain is pretty good, I'm taking advil for it and that's mostly for the cramps and all over body pain(feel like I was ran over by a truck), not the episiotomy site.

Ethan's dropped to 6lbs 3oz but he seems to be doing fine. I'm going to go eat and relax as somebody will want to eat in another hour.

Once again, he was born 10/22/2006 2:18am, 6lbs12oz, 20 inches long
 

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Congrats! And what a cutie! Listen to Ethan about how often he eats. Feeding him on demand is the best way to get a good milk supply. My babies both wanted to eat at least every 1.5-2 hours. My new little piggy :D wanted to eat every 30 mins for the first 3 weeks. Oh, and they don't starve to death either. My daughter wouldn't eat for the first 3 days and she was fine. Babies are ok to lose up to 10% of their body weight and be fine. My son lost 10oz by day 3 but by 2.5 weeks had put on a pound above his birth weight..
 
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Yeah, I figure the lack of the number of dirty and wet diapers they say is normal is the 3 hour thing the nursery said to go by. During the day I kept him with me, except when they took him and kept it as often as I noticed his smacking his lips, sucking on his hand etc. During the night, since I had a room mate I had to follow the 3 hour thing.

I just fed him and before that was only an hour. He's only going for 7-10 minutes and won't take the other side so I guess that's why. I'm going to try and go on demand to see if that gets him going.
 
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I am so glad that you are both safe and well :hug:

Often, too , within the first week or so- many babies will begin to "cluster nurse". WHich means that before a longer sleep period- the baby will nurse every 20 min or so for like an hour or two. Then usually they'll sleep for a longer stretch....and then during the day their nursing will be further apart. I have never had a baby who ate every three hours- especially a newborn- they were all like every 90 minutes to 2 hours. I stopped keeping track after my oldest- I was just too lazy to write it down :)

Do y'all have the money to take Ethan to a chiropractor? When I had Jane- she was all stuck and came out all bruised and banged up...and in retrospect I really wish I had taken her to the chiropractor after her birth....

I am so glad that you are both okay!! He is so beautiful! I am still in denial that I am going to have one in 3 more months....
 
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That's some birth story, and it's amazing that you did it without pain relief! I'm glad he's here, he's a gorgeous little boy.

Feeding 3 hourly is the bottle feeding pattern, formula is hard for a baby to digest and therefore they need to be fed less often then a breastfed baby. You need to establish your milk supply and to do that you need to feed whenever Ethan needs to be fed, follow his lead.

Gosh so much advice, you can tell me to shut up if it get's too much, I won't mind. I think it's just human nature to want to help out new mums but it can be overwhelming.
 
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That's some birth story, and it's amazing that you did it without pain relief! I'm glad he's here, he's a gorgeous little boy.

Feeding 3 hourly is the bottle feeding pattern, formula is hard for a baby to digest and therefore they need to be fed less often then a breastfed baby. You need to establish your milk supply and to do that you need to feed whenever Ethan needs to be fed, follow his lead.

Gosh so much advice, you can tell me to shut up if it get's too much, I won't mind. I think it's just human nature to want to help out new mums but it can be overwhelming.

Honestly I could breath through the contractions and focus on Trek(we had eps on DVD and I did everything to keep focused on the episode and the words, it really helpped) until I wasn't allowed to move. Contracting and having to remain as still as possible hurt, thank God Ron was there to turn up up the Trek(which my MIL kept turning down(she was tired and was annoyed I went into labor at night) until Ron kicked her out) and helpped me focus.

Once I was complete and the doc had to do what he did, all bets were off I did let out a few screams! :D

Next time I'm making them put the bed up more, having to half hold myself up enough to push right - my arms still hurt!

Thanks for the advice ladies, keep it coming. I don't have a mum or any older more experienced woman around to help me. I need all the advice and encouragement I can get.
 
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Only his wrists, ehh? My ob was up to her elbows, but I cheated this time and had an epidural in case this procedure was going to happen so it probably wasn't as painful as your experience.
Congrats for finally having him!!! now that you're relieved of your pregnancy, it's off to those miserable sleepless nights, but it's all well worth it when in a year and a half he gives you his first hug.
 
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