My sister was my biggest christian influence growing up. She was very strong in her faith and through watching her, I became strong in mine. With our similar world view, we were extremely close. At 22 I met a lovely christian guy and got married. As the older sibling my 24 yo, sister found this really hard. She declared that God had no one for her and that she would find someone herself. Fast forward a few months and she's living with a non-christian who she hardly knew. My family were uninvited to her birthday and she moved house and didn't tell anyone where she lived. I met the guy and he told me that he hates people, hates his family, even hates himself. My sister sat there giggling as though he was super cool. I told her very firmly that what she was doing was wrong, that she shouldn't be dating him, let alone living with him (she was very open about waiting until marriage before this). She told me that until I accept him, I will not be welcome in her life and she cut me off every platform, blocking my cell etc. 4 years later, they have just gotten married. My parents were devastated. He never asked for a blessing and she never even spoke to them about it apart from an invite, even though they keep in touch as best they can. I was never invited.
She still claims that she is a christian despite living an opposite lifestyle. He is very anti God and anti my family. My sister was the closest person to me and to be estranged from her feels wrong and ungodly. I have tried to reconnect through mutual family members but she has told them that she doesn't want my 'abuse'. Her husband has told her that I am a "judgemental christian' and to keep away from me. I don't know what to do. Family means everything to me, but this person is not my sister anymore; she is a stranger who hates me. I feel to leave it until she softens her heart but it seems she becomes harder each day. Has anyone been in a situation like this? What does the bible say? What does God say? Is there hope?
She still claims that she is a christian despite living an opposite lifestyle. He is very anti God and anti my family. My sister was the closest person to me and to be estranged from her feels wrong and ungodly. I have tried to reconnect through mutual family members but she has told them that she doesn't want my 'abuse'. Her husband has told her that I am a "judgemental christian' and to keep away from me. I don't know what to do. Family means everything to me, but this person is not my sister anymore; she is a stranger who hates me. I feel to leave it until she softens her heart but it seems she becomes harder each day. Has anyone been in a situation like this? What does the bible say? What does God say? Is there hope?