embarassing

[anonuser]

There have been a couple occasions that I have been with my fiance in which I have had something rather embarassing happen. We are both conservative Christians and believe firmly and have taken steps to make sure that sex is saved for marriage. Obviously, since I am going to marry her, I am greatly attracted to her on many levels. There have been a couple times that we have been together, not necessarily alone and simply holding hands or sitting close shoulder to shoulder, and I could not hold back an [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse]. I don't know if she's even noticed, but needless to say it's awkward. There is nothing sexual happening between us, it just feels like a horomone rush or something.

Has anyone else had this happen? Any suggestions on how to approch it?

 

[DaveKerwin]

It will stop after you get married. Ride the wave bud.

 

[LvMAgape]

I'm in a similar situation. I come from a very conservative background and my boyfriend's more liberal. In his past relationships, I'm sure he didn't go all the way (because we both believe in sex after marriage) but he's more comfortable with being affectinate than I am. So when he holds me close or rubs my hands I can't help feeling an adrenaline rush myself and I get a bit weak.
And then I feel foolish b/c I think he noticed it while he didn't feel the same way I did. SO I don't know what advice to give you, maybe I need some myself...but I just want tell ya that you're not alone.
I wish I could talk to my boyfriend about it too though, but i feel too embarrased to discuss anything that intimate.

 

[Iggster]

It will stop after you get married. Ride the wave bud.

Agree............ I think you should be very concerned, if it didn't occur. There's no questioning your manhood now....LOL

I feel as if the good Lord is about to strike me with lightning bolts.

 

[EmSchmem]

Wow! I bet he feels better now! LOL! It is perfectly normal and when my husband and I were dating and especially engaged, a few times we would hug and I would "notice." It was difficult for me to control my thought life with all the thinkin (OH BOY!) but we got through. If she notices, she'll likely be too embarrassed to say anything too and when you get married, it'll just be something to laugh about. My husband and I do and neither of us are embarrassed any more. And you're not doing anything wrong!

 

[Pope Gonzo]

This might be silly of me... but do you mean [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse] or just an erection? Because there's a HUGE difference between getting an erection based off simple touch and an [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse]

 

[EmSchmem]

This might be silly of me... but do you mean [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse] or just an erection? Because there's a HUGE difference between getting an erection based off simple touch and an [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse]

LOL I wanted to ask but didn't feel comfortable...

 

[rwl]

If you're just getting an erection, it's more then normal.

If it IS [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse], and just from holding hands.... either you're making it up, or you need to see a doctor. Seriously.

 

[call-me-dan]

If you're just getting an erection, it's more then normal.

If it IS [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse], and just from holding hands.... either you're making it up, or you need to see a doctor. Seriously.

i dont know, i have had similar situations, and for me, after not having a "release" for a very long while, weird stuff starts to happen. Im sure most of you guys know what im talking about, yeah

ride the wave brother

i couldnt have said it better myself

†
pura vida
dan

 

[rwl]

Similar in what manner?

Keep in mind that there is a difference between pre-[bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse] and full on [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse]/[bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse].

 

[rwl]

I also meant to add... I'm not sure if this should really be moved to them mens only forum or not.

Mods - what say you.

 

[DaveKerwin]

Everyone's body operates a bit differently, you do not have a disorder or anything, don't sweat it. I personally never experienced that while awake. Enough said.

 

[slwcar88]

I would have to agree with DaveKerwin. Nothing is wrong with you although I have only experienced "the release" during my sleep not just being affectionate with another. Now if you get married and are [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse] during foreplay you might be a pre-mature ejaculator. Which there are plenty of methods of coping with that problem. Try searching online at ask jeeves or google it for methods to helping with pre-mature [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse]. I would post a link for you but you need to hit required number of posts to do so.

 

[Amanda-Soo]

I wouldn't be worried if I were you. You think girls don't feel close to the same way? A lot of girls just aren't as open with this sort of discussion. I believe pre-[bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse] in your situation is normal. I don't think you should worry about her noticing... it's not likely that she will unless she's extremely observant anyway. Girls can also pre-cum if their emotions and hormones are going crazy. Keep in mind that she could be experiencing almost the same thing.

 

[shastajade]

I wouldn't worry about it, its normal.

 

[plum]

I want to bless you for waiting! Purity is a daily goal. Keep pursuing holiness in this relationship with all of your might. God bless you!