1. There are AC outlets in my house. When I plug a cord into them the electrons flow into the cord. Where do the electrons go when the plug is not plugged in? Do they make a round trip back to their source?
When you plug in, say a lamp with a switch... if the switch is off then the the electrons do not flow anywhere. because the circuit is still 'open.' When you turn the lamp on the circuit is now 'closed' (yes it is a bit counter intuitive) and the electrons will then flow back and forth (AC) through the filament of the lamp.
Other strange thing is that while switching on the lamp is almost instantaneous (practically speaking it IS instantaneous) the electrons themselves do not move very fast. They flow in one direction at about 84 meters/second max in a 12 gage wire carrying 10 Amperes. But they only do this for half a cycle then they flow back at the same speed. Doing some back of envelope math says they will travel about 0.7 meters back and forth. It is unlikely that any given electron in the lamp itself will ever leave the lamp cord if it is 1 meter long.
So... when the cord is not plugged in they go nowhere. When something is plugged in and off, they go nowhere. When something is plugged in and turned on they go a short distance back and forth. In AC circuits thy do not make a 'round trip.' I a DC (direct current) circuit they do make a 'round trip.'
2. If I'm in a small amount of water, like a bathtub, and drop an AC powered appliance into it, I'll likely be electrocuted to death. I assume that if I were in a larger amount of water, such as a lake, I wouldn't be. Is there a mathematical formula to express how electricity disperses through water? (I recall that there is some formula to express the dispersion of light.)
Pure unionized water has much higher resistance than you. Dropping a hair-dryer (that is plugged in) in to the bath tub will connect the current from the wall socket to the water in the bath. The electric current will 'spread out' through all the water AND you, and will take the path of least resistance... that is you... and pass to the drain which is 'grounded.' It is even worse if you try and grab the hair-dryer to toss it out. If you have the chance, get out of the tub without touching the hair-dryer or anything metal.
Most, if not all, areas of the USA require GFI (Ground Fault Interrupt) outlets in the bathroom and kitchen. Some appliances (such as hair-dryers) may have a GFI style plug already on it. GFI detects if there is any current NOT going through the regular 'neutral' part of the circuit and trips a circuit breaker if there is a fault (such as current going to ground via the bath tub.)
3. If I'm in a bathtub, and drop a battery powered (DC) appliance into it, would I get electrocuted the same as with an AC appliance plugged into the wall?
No. For one thing most battery powered appliances are 12 VDC or less. Also that 12 VDC (or whatever it is) is in relation to the terminals on the battery. It is not in relation to ground (the metal fixtures in your tub.) To get any noticeable shock at all you would need a higher voltage and some part of your body would have to come (electrically) between the terminals on the battery in the appliance. So dropping a non-waterproof flashlight or battery powered drill or whatever in the tub may ruin the flashlight or drill but it won't ruin you.
If you dropped an old fashioned battery powered tube radio (from the 1950s and earlier) which has a 400VDC battery in it then it could get ugly but it is unlikely.
So... dropping a hair dryer in your tub while you are in it is very dangerous. But if someone drops a hair-dryer in the opposite end of a large swimming pool from you it is unlikely you would even notice. If you are climbing out of the pool on the metal ladder and the hair dryer is dropped in to the pool very close to you then there could be problem.
Swimming in a small lake during a thunderstorm is very dangerous. People can swim at one end of, say, Lake Superior and there may be a thunderstorm at the other end with lots of lightning strikes and they are in no danger.
There is no simple rule for calculating the amount of danger in a given situation because it depends on so many factors. Basically it is proportional to how much voltage (and therefore how much current) and how big the 'conductor' (the pool, tub, lake, whatever) is and how much of that conductor is you and how close you are to the source and the ground.