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little_lily613

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I was on Effexor and now I am off. This may seem like a blunt question but do you REALLY need them or is your doctor trying to get a bonus for prescribing them (which is OFTEN the case here)? I ask this because unless you REALLY need to be on them, I would suggest talking to your doctor. I had terrible withdrawls when I was trying to get off and that was after being promised I wouldn't. I won't take any more meds. It is probably all meds, not just Effexor, but for two to four weeks as I tried to get off, it was terrible. However, if you need them and are going to be on them permanently you won't have to worry about any withdrawls.
 
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Oh, and I want to add that I am not trying to scare you in anyway. I was terrified to come off of Effexor, and the withdrawls were terrible (brain shocks), but it wasn't unbearable. I still lived my everyday life. I just didn't feel well for awhile because I was "detoxing" from the drugs.
 
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i believe that i need them at this point in my life. i have been on other anti-depressants before including zoloft, prozac and wellbutrin. I wrongfully decided to take myself off my last anti-depressant in November. I tried tapering off by myself but I still had the shocks and crazy feelings. I didn't do this with doctor permission or supervision. I think it takes longer than 2-4 weeks to taper off them correctly. But I don't know for sure.

I am also taking classes and going to counseling. I am praying that this is what God has for me to get better.

Thanks for the warnings and advice :hug:
 
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Hi there,:wave:

God bless.

I've had Effexor for a while, but it didn't work.:(
There were no side effects either.:thumbsup:
Now de doctors are trying another anti-depressant (clomipramine).
Before "Effexor" I was on "Paroxetine", they made me very sick.:sick:
The doctors don't know what kind of anti-depressant is gonna work with me, my body does not accept most anti-depressant, maybe that's because I don't believe medication is the solution to solve my problems and the way I'm feeling. I don't know.:confused:
 
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kennedychick2004 said:
I haven't had any drowsiness like I've had on other meds. hows it going?
It's actually going really well :) I haven't been super crabby like I have in the past and Ihaven't had ONE suicidal thought lately :)

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I tried taking Lexapro, and it worked well, but I had to stop taking it cause of the cost. I then switched to fluoxetine (generic for Prozac) but I became more depressed and had suicidal thoughts. :( I have stopped taking anti-depressents all together.
 
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i still feel pretty low. Sad and like I cant' stand being alive. Its only the 2nd week though. I feel like I just want to walk out on my job though. I work at a hotel at the front desk. This is not the job for me. I cant' stand talking on the phone. The phone rings all the time. I can't stand talking to people either. There's always someone I have to talk to. My husband is forcing me to work because he only makes so much money. This is the only job I've found :(
 
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Just wanted to update this thread. I don't know if its the Effexor or the new job I start on Monday but I feel as if things are different. Things feel better to me. I am at work (still at Days Inn for a few more days) and I am in a good mood. :) Very much looking forward to the new job. Oh and things are better with the hubby too :)
 
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Desert_pea said:
Glad you're doing better kennedychick :)

I have also started on Effexor recently (3 weeks ago). Have upped my dose twice already lol. Really starting to notice a difference just now actually so I'm happy with that :)
what dose are you on now. At this point I'm not sure if I should up mine again or not. I'm only on 75 mg...
 
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I haven't experienced any major side effects that I've noticed. I go back to the doctor on Friday and I may ask to have the dosage upped a bit since I still feel the need for St. John's Wort through out the day to make it through in a good mood.
 
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Hello Kennedychick,
I have taken effexor before, it didn't work for me, made me sick and my legs were so restless at night. I've known other people who are just fine with it.
I'm sorry you don't like your job. That certainly doesn't help a thing. Hugs to you my friend. Hang in there, talk to your husband, I know I sound bossy but I just know that communication is so important. You're in my prayers Kennedychick.
God Bless,

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Even though this mostly relates to me It might help.

The worst side effect of all anti depressants. when you no longer take them you are left right where you were when you started. there kinda like a life stop watch. For me at least. Maybe it is just a natural process god just wont let us cheat.

Just another useless piece of advice from someone who knows nothing.
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