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I completely agree with you!! An education doesnt say much....my bachelor's degree didn't do much for me (my seminary degree did though). My life experiences are who make me who I am and cater to my intelligence. Godly wisdom, too.I admire people with inquisitive minds that try to understand how the world works. Who are highly developed emotionally and are capable of communicating complex feelings. Who have the ambition to keep growing. Also, that have the ability to listen to themselves internally to know when to care for others, and when they need to stop and take care of themselves.
I value these types of intelligence over what a person learns in college.
When dating someone or thinking about a future partner... how important is it for that person to have the same amount of education as (or even more than) yourself? Is that a priority of yours in any way?
If it was a priority to someone, what would you think?
Well, I think it's ironic that when you do find someone you want to be with all those little demands just fly out the window. It might just as well be someone that has most characteristics you've listed and you don't find yourself interested in them one bit. However, I think those 'lists' usually just include things different people are attracted to and that's a whole different thing. You can easily be attracted to a quality someone possesses. Does that mean it's necessarily right for you? Certainly not. It's natural that people think about those things, though.
On another note, though, I would NOT date anyone that calls me teddy bear.
I remember having seen a couple of really long ones in here and it kind of tells me that at least if someone from the CF was to pursue them that would take a really great sense of humor
It's good that you feel free of outside pressures.
When they're old and wrinkly and try to hit on twentysomethings.
I didn't say I don't feel the pressure. I just try my best to think for myself.
I totally agree. I've met guys that have most of the characteristics I'm looking for but I feel no attraction or draw towards them whatsoever!!Well, I think it's ironic that when you do find someone you want to be with all those little demands just fly out the window. It might just as well be someone that has most characteristics you've listed and you don't find yourself interested in them one bit. However, I think those 'lists' usually just include things different people are attracted to and that's a whole different thing. You can easily be attracted to a quality someone possesses. Does that mean it's necessarily right for you? Certainly not. It's natural that people think about those things, though.
Do I value education? Yes. Have I been interested in someone(s) that never studied beyond high school. Sure thing. Their maturity is a much bigger factor for me. I think you can't make generalizations based on education 'cause each situation is individual. It might be they can't even afford to attend college. It might be it's very difficult to get in (for my own defence.. not to say I won't try again).
On another note, though, I would NOT date anyone that calls me teddy bear.
I totally agree. I've met guys that have most of the characteristics I'm looking for but I feel no attraction or draw towards them whatsoever!!
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