Dumbfounded

[Sarrapin]

Say that you've known a girl for a while and seemingly get along well with her for months in conversations and what-not. She seems to like you and seems to enjoy your company. So, why, in the whole world of all things rational and sane, would she ask for your number, say that she'll call you, but never actually do it?


I don't get it - apart from the "she never really liked you anyway" explanation that I've thought of. Even if that were true, it just seems a sadistic way of brushing someone off. You know, throw a theological, philosophical, or accounting question at me and the chances are I can answer it because they are rational and logical, but when it comes to relationships ... it just seems to defy all logic. I am just so confused.

I would appreciate it if anyone could offer some insight for me to make some sense of it.


Edit: I apologise if this is in the wrong forum.

 

[Generalen]

These games, man, Im telling you! These social games that people live after, it messes regular folks up.

She obviously have a thought and intentions with this. But women tend to believe that we (men) are mindreaders, and that we understand every little sign they give us. Like now, I bet she is thinking that you know exactly whats going on, and that you will "make your move" soon.

She is probably just playing with you, making you run after her, and not vice verca. So if I were you, I would just throw her away. I hate mindgames like this, nothing good will ever come out of games like that! But dont listen to me too much, Im just some angry, random guy, haha!

Follow your heart and trust yourself, mate!

 

[MacFall]

I don't know. Why don't you ask her?

 

[mahlalie]

She obviously have a thought and intentions with this. But women tend to believe that we (men) are mindreaders, and that we understand every little sign they give us. Like now, I bet she is thinking that you know exactly whats going on, and that you will "make your move" soon.

*likes*

And they think we're the complicated ones. *grumbles*

 

[cbradley]

The first mistake guys make is assuming that because women look different, they act/feel different. What are the you reasons you don't call people? Maybe she planned on calling but got busy? Maybe she got home and thought better of it?
It's hard to give accurate advice when you don't know anything about somebody.

 

[Annel]

I don't know. Why don't you ask her?

Agreed. It may just be that she does not know how to ask/ tell you how she feels. If she can't find the courage, why don't you?

 

[Daisy215]

Maybe she just thinks of you as a friend and doesn't want to be awkward by calling and telling you.
Girls avoid, it's a coping mechanism that seems to have no downfalls.
Also, she could be going through something, like a family tragedy and just not have time to call.

 

[Mayzoo]

It could be as simple as she lost your phone number or her cell phone.

 

[bornagain2011]

When she asked for your number did she give you hers? Maybe she believes that the guy is suppose to make the first move.

 

[TanteBelle]

I agree with most folks on here. It could be one thing and it could be another but the best thing to do is just ask her, mate! Suppositions can send the mind crazy! Get the facts! Some women play mindgames, I don't so I can't just assume that she is or isn't. You can't find out about one girl by asking everyone else but her!