csheppard91 said:
I've read some discussion on drinking in this forum and there wasn't one reply condeming drinking... I don't see how it can be christian like, but I don't know how to disprove it. I have heard people saying that they drunk whine back then, but can you biblically prove the whine drunk in good faith (considering they don't get drunk from it) HAS been fermented?
I think it depends on your culture and who you are.
In my family (as in uncles, aunts, etcetera) and my social circle we see alcohol as just something that's there. Like juice, only not to be drunk in the same way
I can have a beer or a glass of wine, but hardly ever more than one glass. I can have two, if I feel good that day and have eaten much (alcohol does not affect you as much then). If I am tired or hungry I don't drink at all.
If I had been in a group/setting which would have used alcohol to "binge", or get drunk. Or even drunk daily but not a lot, I would have said that it was not right. Because alcohol can be good, and it can be bad. Depending on your attitude towards it, and your surroundings alcohol can definitely be bad.
But alcohol per se is not bad at all. Sin is what tears down, right? Either you or others. What builds up is no sin. Right?
Depending on your social circumstances alcohol can build up - given you drink very little. And seldom.
Depending on social circumstances any amount of alcohol can also tear down. Examples of this is if you drink alongside people who consider alcohol synonymous with getting drunk - which I gather seems to be the normal perception in the US. Another would be among alcoholics, or people who have struggled extensively with alcohol on earlier points of their lives, or currently do so.
Physically a little alcohol is good for you. Physically a lot of alcohol is very bad for you.
Sociologically small amounts of alcohol is just like any other excuse for sitting down and chatting. When I have a glass of whiskey I only do so with friends. I stick to one glass. And I drink it as whiskey and indeed most alcohol should be drunk; I enjoy it over an extended period of time. The reason why I drink whiskey and not... Say, Pepsi, is that I like the taste of whiskey. And on rare occasions choose to spend a little extra money on something tasty.
I see nothing wrong with that, and in my setting it isn't wrong. If I were to be around AA members when I had a whiskey it would be wrong as it would tempt them. If it was among teenagers I would also skip it, depending on who those teenagers were.
[edit]Oh, and these 'rules' I have set down... They aren't really rules or laws I have written down. I just don't want to or feel like having a different relationship to alcohol. I do not want to be drunk. I do not want to drink often. I guess that comes with seeking the Lord, because at one point when my faith was all down the drain I was more tempted to use it as an escape for what hardships I encountered. I never did, but I was tempted.[/edit]