Dreams

[c1ners]

I dreamed of my late husband last night. It was such a wonderful dream. In it we laughed and talked. We were in a beautiful place, and there was such a feeling of peace around us. We made love in our dream, but it wasn't like her on earth. It was more of the joining of two bodies. Heart, mind, and soul. When I awoke this morning I still had that peaceful feeling. It was nice.

Anyone else want to share any dreams or anything about their late spouse?

 

[throughfaithalone]

Hello,
I am new to this board. My husband died in a car accident on March 31, 2004. For the longest times most of my dreams about him were not good ones. Many times he would come back and tell me he was leaving me for another woman. More recently though my dreams of him have been more like he never passed. He is just there with us as a family and it's normal as anything. It's an interesting topic.

God Bless,
Leigh

 

[c1ners]

Thanks for sharing Leigh. I'm sorry about your husband. My husband also passed away due to a car accident. August 14th will be 19 years. I still love and miss him so much.

 

[BlestByTheBest]

c1ners, that is a wonderful blessing!
My husband died about 5 yrs ago. Next month would have been our 9th wedding anniversary
The first year after he died, I dreamed about him often. Most of the dreams were frightening and sad. The first dream was just a few days after he died, and only lasted a moment. I dreamed he was standing beside my bed, just looking at me with a very sad expression on his face....like he was so sorry for what I was going through.
One time I had a dream that he came back but was with another woman. throughfaithalone, I wonder if that means something significant?
Other dreams were so disturbing that I can't bare to even talk about them to anyone.
I don't think I've ever had a really pleasant dream about him.

 

[c1ners]

c1ners, that is a wonderful blessing!
My husband died about 5 yrs ago. Next month would have been our 9th wedding anniversary
The first year after he died, I dreamed about him often. Most of the dreams were frightening and sad. The first dream was just a few days after he died, and only lasted a moment. I dreamed he was standing beside my bed, just looking at me with a very sad expression on his face....like he was so sorry for what I was going through.
One time I had a dream that he came back but was with another woman. throughfaithalone, I wonder if that means something significant?
Other dreams were so disturbing that I can't bare to even talk about them to anyone.
I don't think I've ever had a really pleasant dream about him.

I'm sorry to hear about your husband. September would have been our anniversarry.

The first dream I had of him was three days after the accident. I was still in the hospital in very serious conditiion. I was so cold that day. My sister kept getting me blankets. I think I had probably seven warm blankets on me, and I was still freezing. As the day wore on I became weaker and weaker. My phone rang, I knew it was my other sister, but I couldn't move a muscle in my body. I called out for someone to please help me, but no words would even come out. Finally I went into la la land. In that la la land was my Danny. He looked so scared and confused. My brother who had died a year and a half before him was also there. As well as people I didn't know, and a white cat. My parents walked into my room at this time. I pulled myself out of la la land and forced myself to tell them that I wanted my sister to have my daughter. My eyes rolled back in my head, and I was gone. I could hear my mom screaming, and I could feel her slapping me, but it was as though I wasn't in my body. I was with Danny. I couldn't get near him. It was as though there was a barrier between us. He kept looking my way as if to say "Please come with me", but I couldn't. I could only watch. I saw my brother talking to him, and they turned around to leave. Danny gave me one more pleading look, and then walked into the light. It was then that I came back into my body.

I was confused about the white cat. Danny had never told me he had a cat. I asked his parents about it, and sure enough, when he was younger he had a white cat that he loved very much. It's comforting to know that not only will our loved one be there for us when we die, but also our beloved pets.

God Bless.