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its best that i leave cf, ive done too much damage here


Dear sister I can't agree with that. All I have seen you do is expressing the incredible pain of suffering depression. It is good to do that, it helps you unravel the clutter in your mind and provides room for others to give support. :thumbsup:

Many people on this forum have had times that they felt suicidal, I know I have been through that more than once here at C.F. (Luckily these times passed.) So please don't leave this place but rather keep seeking out help and comfort I know most people that visit this forum gladly give support.:thumbsup:


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More things have added on to the pain, it's got worse

I can't do this


You need to learn how to let go because whatever is bothering you. Most likely it might be more than one thing by now because you've have depression for awhile. If you don't know what is bothering you, you need to try your best to relax and think hard back to when it first started. Because right now your focusing on the symptoms of depression, but it's trying to tell you something! Your hurting over something and the longer you hold it in the longer it is going to bother you. Right now it sounds like your in survival mode on a daily basis just trying to make it through because of depression and it will be that way untill you learn to let go of the things that are bothering you.


Letting go is the first step to put you on the path of healing and i know that's what you want.
 
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I have let out what's bothering me. I have talked about those issues many times. I just don't have the strength to do anything.I've been going to a Christian counselor but I'm starting to feel depressed again


That's good that your letting out what's bothering you, of course the symptoms of depression are bothering you, but dig deeper of whats really bothering you, the source of it, is it your relationship with your dad?
 
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I have told the counselor specifically what's bothering me. None of it can be changed



You need to LET GO of those things that are bothering you, especially if they can't be changed, clinging on to those things are keeping you from the path of healing and moving on with your life!
 
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I just don't want to go on, it's not worth it, life has nothing to offer, I don't know what to do with my life after graduating


If you don't want to go on in life suffering then you NEED to let it go, all the things that are bothering you and can't be changed-- That's the start of it, the path for you to heal.
 
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