You know it is similar attitudes like these that keep people in marriages like ukok was in, because they think the big "D" word is the end. They failed, and their life, not to mention sex life, is completely over. It is a big dead end. So you get people so desperate (not excusing murder in ALL cases), they go and kill the abusive spouse. My mom stayed in an adulterous marriage most of her life because the "church" told her she was a failure if she did. They pointed out the bible (not to mention my dad just to cover his adulterating b*tt), further adding to her feeling of failure...she is a VERY faithful woman and of course that faith was used against her many many times. Oh well...once we were grown she finally left him and I have not been happier for her since. I've told her many a times and now she knows the truth of it, she is free to have a male friend, date, remarry, whatever....she is NOT cheating on my dad. He's as good as dead as far as the marriage. You know how much he cared about her when she left? He married the lying adulteress he was seeing at the time. Know how they met? They met and were cheating at the hospital my sister was dying in.
You can play with this issue if you want to, but I tell you that you are playing with impressionable people's lives. Like you care.
I couldn't agree with you more.
