dallasapple
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I'm entitled to my opinion and you're entitled to yours. *shrug*
So long as you state it as an opinion after my post that "her kids will never want to go anywhere with them" thats fine.You stated it as if it was a definite that will happen..As well as the 'further embarrasement"..
For all YOU know or I know or anyone knows they are already DESENSITISED to this which eventually WILL happen..I grew up with parents that fought...not in public but at home..after so many years ..we just "assumed' it was normal..We didnt like it..but it was business as usual..We thought thats how everyone acted.They also did the whole "we are a happy family" in public..that is NOT good for children ..Jane mentioned that if felt fake in church.it probably feels "fake" to the kids..or they will assume its how EVERYONE acts...
If she takes a stand AGAINST it..she will teach them..this ISNT O.K..this ISNT how you should allow anyone to treat you period..embarrassed or not embarrased..As well as Jane is a sensitive and caring mother..Im sure she can explain to them..and apologize it had to come to that..
Its a hell of a lot less drastic/traumatic than a separation OR allowing this to happen over and over again.... and it could work .
Dallas
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