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Korean-American Christian

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Amen. God bless you KAC. :clap:

My dear sister brinny, may God our Father bless you richly and abundantly

(There's a lot of love on CF today :D)
 
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Your house-mates assessment of you reflects who you are much more than your dad's. His is surely more about him and how he feels than about who you are. Your father in heaven thinks much more highly of you. It's painful because your earthly parents are supposed to validate you.
 
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Korean-American Christian

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Your house-mates assessment of you reflects who you are much more than your dad's. His is surely more about him and how he feels than about who you are. Your father in heaven thinks much more highly of you. It's painful because your earthly parents are supposed to validate you.

My dear friend,

I completely agree with you....my father's anger/bitterness/rage/resentment is completely about his own inner torment.

Thank you for reminding me that our Father in Heaven thinks highly of me.

In a perfect world, earthly parents would definitely validate their children

may our Lord Jesus Christ be with you always

may our Father in Heaven bless you
 
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