I'm not too big to admit that, as far as I've lived it and known it, we men do not seem to cope with being single nearly as well as women do. See Bèlla's earlier observation that most of the people complaining about this state of affairs are men. Maybe there's some way that this could be turned around to also be an indictment of women and/or feminism (here, let me try:
according to women/feminism, women who say they don't need men are strong and liberated, but men who say they don't need women are pathetic, incel women-haters, or something like that), but frankly that'd be a mental salve, not a solution to the problem you're having. And if you think the problem is primarily that women are deceitful or whatever, then why would you want to be with one? And more importantly, why should they want to be with you, if that's the attitude they're presented with at the outset?
Forgive my bluntness, please, but I don't think feminism is going to go away just because you can't seem to find someone to be romantically attracted to you because you have trust issues or other hang-ups that make you unattractive (doesn't everyone?). So you can actually blame whoever or whatever you'd like, but it's not going to do any good. Do we have to go back to the days when women couldn't have their own bank accounts or whatever just so that it is easier for a subset of men to find mates? Gee...I can't for the life of me imagine why more women would not be on board with that!