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perhaps it can make people more "merciful" but then how are they without it?
Many of my in-laws are teetotalers, and it's just plain obnoxious. You're the worst form of scum if you drink alcohol, but don't you dare mention anyone's gambling addiction.
Does being a Teetotaler Make One a Better Christian?Just interested in your thoughts.
Maybe we have to define "teatotaler." It may imply what you are describing here, although I took it to mean only those who abstain.
I know a number of abstainers and they don't at all dwell on the matter or speak ill of other Christians for taking a drink, so long as they are not drunkards.
I see. I've always thought it refers to those who believe that alcohol is inherently immoral. I have no issue with those who simply abstain, and I commend them for their self-control.
Or that prescribed drug they took to compose them self just before visiting.Many of my in-laws are teetotalers, and it's just plain obnoxious. You're the worst form of scum if you drink alcohol, but don't you dare mention anyone's gambling addiction.
Every form of drug abuse -- starts with recreational use and the claim "I am not addicted".
Its not wrong, unless you're an alcoholic or a recovering alcoholic[like myself].
All them AA classes pretty said the difference between a alcoholic and a casual drinker is the alcoholic has to have a drink, while a casual drinker doesn't.
Every form of drug abuse -- starts with recreational use and the claim "I am not addicted".
That's true as no one begins as an alcoholic or junkie. At the same time partaking does not lead most that far. I'm not sure about that term recreational. What does that really mean. .
Its not wrong, unless you're an alcoholic or a recovering alcoholic[like myself].
All them AA classes pretty said the difference between a alcoholic and a casual drinker is the alcoholic has to have a drink, while a casual drinker doesn't.
Every form of drug abuse -- starts with recreational use and the claim "I am not addicted".
*sips his mocha frappe*
Oh?
-CryptoLutheran
A drink? Most alcoholics I've met had to get pretty high.
I'm not even asking about getting plowed drunk and waking up asking yourself who this naked tattooed guy is in your bed. Pretty sure we'd all agree that's overindulging. i'm speaking of the glass of wine with dinner or even that bourbon on the rocks after dinner.
I'm no fan of drunkenness. Seems every time I read someone specific is drunk in scripture, something bad is about to happen. I've also found it to be true in life.
As the saying goes -- 'drugs is drugs'
...a lot of that going on!Mama Kidogo said:Or that prescribed drug they took to compose them self just before visiting.
One drinks wine in communion for communion with Jesus Christ and even though some might call that fun 'fun' is not the usual term applied to it. And if one happens to share a sip of whisky with friends while playing board games (as do I) without getting drunk and without exceeding one shot in around four hours then I would not call it 'fun' so much as part of an experience with friends.it means taking the drug "for fun" not because you are sick or impaired and need some form of artificial nerve stimulation/adjustment
And of course those who start off on whatever their drug of choice is - rarely start of binging or start off from day 1 as the "junkie".
in Christ,
Bob
I don't think we can buy alcohol at 95% (190 proof) in my country and I've never thought of alcohol as tasting good. The whisky I drink tastes interesting but a glass of water tastes better.Ah ok, well I tend to view it as such as.. when I drank, that was specifically my goal. I eventually just bought nothing but everclear and something sweet to mix it with. More potency for more effect, and more bang for your buck. I replaced alcohol with coffee, and well now, I think I drink too much of that as well. lol.
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