As I told you it is not the job of a Christian or layperson to convince another adult of something: everyone is responsible for their own spiritual trajectory.
The two are not mutually exclusive. Each person is of course responsible for choosing how to react, but it is your responsibility to present the best case you can for Christianity's claims being true. And, in this place, it is ours to point out our errors.
MUST READ: Christian Apologetics Statement of Purpose
"The purpose of the Christian Apologetics forum is to give non-Christians the opportunity to start threads to challenge Christian theology, beliefs and practices, and Christians the opportunity to rationally defend their beliefs. Christians may start threads to present an argument in support of the Christian faith."
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