Do YOU have a crush on anyone? (7)

[Redstiletto]

its not that bad, although I suck at long distance car rides... I get distracted.....

 

[canehdianhotstuff]

Lol I see. I love road trips, Im an absolute paranoiaist on the bus though, I wont sleep.

 

[Redstiletto]

Yeah I cant sleep on the bus or on a plane or a train(though i have never been on a train.... so maybe) but I get all geeked out and have to be able to see the window... its a closterphobic thing I think... mixed with the right amount of ADD...

 

[canehdianhotstuff]

Mine is I dont trust people on the bus....and I like to know where I am in proximity to where I am going.

 

[Redstiletto]

I see. I usually am the entertainment.

 

[canehdianhotstuff]

Sounds good to me.

 

[Redstiletto]

lol!

 

[Jerimi]

Hahahahahahahahahaha... Be careful Red... He might be more of a gentleman than I am. Wouldn't want to frighten him away

 

[canehdianhotstuff]

She could try, but it wouldnt be to any avail.

 

[Inkachu]

Gack.

 

[crishmael]

Nope. I refuse to ride that ride.

Yeah, it is overhyped.

 

[toastface_grillah]

Sure, who ya crushin' on?

ooo who???

Alas, none yet. T'would be nice, though!

 

[StarryEyes]

Still yes. He won't go awayyyy.. not that I want him to lol. I still believe this is a God-thing. And it's really confusing but God just wants me to keep trusting Him!!

It was crazy.. the other day, I saw his little sister, and she had this big grin on her face (I've never even talked to her before!) and then after that, I saw his good friend's mom who grinned and said hi and waved, and then, twice, I saw his former babysitter and talked to her both times. I see his name everywhere, (first name), and am reminded of him a lot.. and I have these shirts with the name of a lake on them that I wear a lot, and a little while ago found out that his good friend was going to that lake, and I'm going there in a couple months.. but I haven't seen him for so long or talked to him for so long... and he has a girlfriend :/ But he moved a couple hours closer to me not long ago!! Good ol' small towns..

And when I saw his dad, he'd smile and say hi to me but wouldn't say hi to any of my friends.. who go to his church. And one day I was stopped at a stop sign and his dad was stopped at the one opposite me, and he let me go first, and when I drove by he grinned and said Hi! and stuck his arm out the window and waved at me.

Sorry for the rant I've just really been thinking about him a LOT lately and he just won't get out of my head or heart. There are days now that I don't think about him at all, but then there are days I can't seem to stop thinking about him... I've tried moving on, I've tried making up excuses to be mad at him hoping that would help me move on, I even had a boyfriend for over a year but that wasn't fair to him at all b/c this guy would still come to mind...

Well anyway, I just gotta keep doing what God wants me to do and that's trusting Him, keep making changes to live a healthier lifestyle, and keep plugging away at growing the business and helping people.

 

[white dove]

I don't wanna know if someone has a crush on me unless it's a serious crush and they wanna start getting acquainted and such. If they're just gonna say "Hey, yer cute" and the next day be chasing someone else...umm, no thanks!

I don't think I've ever had this happen to me... you are one-up on me in this one, lady!

Does anyone else notice that it seems like the same few people on CF who are constantly the recipients of crushes?

I haven't noticed this recently. About 5 yrs ago, there was always the one girl here at CF who was simply adored and fawned over like she was Eliza Doolittle or something. Lol I'm just kidding. I just wanted to say "Eliza Doolittle." No, but really... haven't seen any one person singled out over the past few years. *shrug* What do you mean?

What's the secret, please?

Gack.

You're fun to quote! Wow, and so by quoting you so much has made me realize I've always been funking up your name when I quote you! I always say "Inkablink" or "Ina blink!" Blah.

 

[toastface_grillah]

I haven't noticed this recently. About 5 yrs ago, there was always the one girl here at CF who was simply adored and fawned over like she was Eliza Doolittle or something. Lol I'm just kidding. I just wanted to say "Eliza Doolittle." No, but really... haven't seen any one person singled out over the past few years. *shrug* What do you mean?

Is Eliza, er, the girl still here?

 

[white dove]

Is Eliza, er, the girl still here?

No. She was one of the original gangsta.. I mean, CFers.



She was pretty, smart and a little kooky. You would've liked her. *fans toastface*

 

[Stravinsk]

I don't wanna know if someone has a crush on me unless it's a serious crush and they wanna start getting acquainted and such. If they're just gonna say "Hey, yer cute" and the next day be chasing someone else...umm, no thanks!

Paying someone a compliment doesn't mean you have any sort of crush on someone, serious or not. Why is it always assumed there is a selfish motive? I sometimes pay compliments to people who I am not interested in romantically because I see something (outward/inward) that I like and the compliment makes them feel good - and it makes me feel good for that.

On the other hand, I've met strangers in life I'd never compliment precisely because they most certainly *will* take it to mean "I'm interested in a relationship with you".

 

[HoosierCanuck]

It's a great, but goofy fellowship thread. People can share crushes going on in RL (like Hoosier) and get support, encouragement, and/or advice.Or CF crushes can be revealed (and possibly lead to a online--possibly offline--romance).

lol.....

Nothing new to report......still waiting on God for the next move. His dad's gf and his dad know about it. The dad's gf is thrilled that I'm crushing on him and the dad's reaction was "maybe someday he'll ask her out." He's cool with it too, I think. I think half the church would be thrilled if we went out. lol (*and I'm slowly finding out that about half the church is related to him somehow! haha) I'm wondering if 'crush subject' is aware. He's been slightly less shy lately....but I STILL have to talk first. (and ftr, he's this way with EVERYONE). When I did speak to him the other day, I noticed he stopped and gave me his undivided attention.

 

[Inkachu]

You're fun to quote! Wow, and so by quoting you so much has made me realize I've always been funking up your name when I quote you! I always say "Inkablink" or "Ina blink!" Blah.

Thanks! And I like being called Inkablink

Paying someone a compliment doesn't mean you have any sort of crush on someone, serious or not. Why is it always assumed there is a selfish motive? I sometimes pay compliments to people who I am not interested in romantically because I see something (outward/inward) that I like and the compliment makes them feel good - and it makes me feel good for that.

On the other hand, I've met strangers in life I'd never compliment precisely because they most certainly *will* take it to mean "I'm interested in a relationship with you".

You do realize that not everyone has exactly the same motives for giving compliments, right? Not every guy hands them out with zero intention beyond being nice. And not everyone (male OR female) receives compliments in exactly the same way. It might mean zilch to one person and might mean a whole lot to another person.

No need to get all huffy if you think differently than I do.

 

[white dove]

Thanks! And I like being called Inkablink

Yeyy!!!!