Do YOU have a crush on anyone? (43)

[Marycita]

Posting to subscribe and say that that l.k.w tag is in like every thread lately...it's driving me nuts not knowing what it is ...UF!

 

[.Mikha'el.]

Posting to subscribe and say that that l.k.w tag is in like every thread lately...it's driving me nuts not knowing what it is ...UF!

Don't look at me.

 

[Saucy]

hahahaha. Oh my.

 

[PinkSweetart]

I'm gone the whole day and only one half reveal? Shame shame people!

 

[.Mikha'el.]

I'm gone the whole day and only one half reveal? Shame shame people!

But I can't , unless you want me to make it up.

 

[Somber]

Oh Joy
Your relationship will not be a mirror image of theirs. Don't be afraid to open yourself to love one day. God will truly bless you abundantly.

Aw, thank you, I sure hope so.

sorry

use their relationship as a teaching tool. Not to run away from love and relationships, but see how things broke down between them, how they treated eachother, etc... and it becomes a yardstick of sorts on what not to do in a relationship, what pitfalls to avoid, what sort of man to look for, etc...

you're not destined to follow in their footsteps, but you can be wiser for having seen what they've gone through.

To a much lesser extent, I'm sure, I've been watching my parents relationship the last few years and while there are good aspects to it that I want in my own marriage, there are things I want to avoid altogether. Its helping me to see what traps I might be more likely to fall into because of the example set for me, and it helps me to have a fuller picture of what I want my future marriage to look like and figure out now how I might best be able to achieve that.

Thank you, yeah, you are right, I've learned a lot from what I've seen in their marriage. All I can do is learn from that and trust God in what He plans for my life.

This and
Joy, I have no idea how my parents are still together after 28 years. They are very different people and have very little in common. Honestly, I sometimes wonder if they are hiding a divorce from everyone. I see my parents as, mostly, example of what not to do. There are some things that I do think were good, but I come from one of those homes that looks good on the outside, but on the inside it's rather dirty. In other words, my parents have very surface level relationship with each other, in fact, my entire immediate family is this way, and I'm the only one who seems to see it. I consider my grandparents as more of a parental figure.

I understand what you mean. Although my parents are no longer together. That must be hard, hopefully they will stay together. I guess we can learn a lot from just observing other people and their experiences. Same here, my grandparents have been together a long time and still love each other.

 

[Squeakers]

I still has a crush on Andrew12. ...

 

[Toro]

Oh Joy
Your relationship will not be a mirror image of theirs. Don't be afraid to open yourself to love one day. God will truly bless you abundantly.

Or you might be unlucky and someone like me will start stalking you like I do Goldie.

 

[anewday]

Um, I have a crush on.......................................................................


































this man.....

I am definitely looking forward to seeing him on the big screen next weekend ......

 

[golden nugget]

love it!

 

[PinkSweetart]

But I can't , unless you want me to make it up.

Yes, yes I do. Okay no... that wouldn't work.

I still has a crush on Andrew12. ...

*Le cute* That is really great!

I'm happy you're all smitten!

 

[SnowyMacie]

Gotta love analyzing text messages

 

[PinkSweetart]

Gotta love analyzing text messages

I think the trick might be not analyzing them at all (well, at least not excessively like I do). Easier said then done, I know.

 

[Nom De Guerre]

Gotta love analyzing text messages

Yeah, don't analyse them at all...

If you don't get it, ask indirect questions; nothing creepy, possessive, or desperate though... just ask and if they say something along the lines of you're reading too much into nothing, say cool, thought so, but I'd hate to of missed out on something you wanted me to know about you.

You're welcome.

 

[Blank123]

Gotta love analyzing text messages

Don't analyze. If you're confused, ask questions.

 

[Toro]

Just say LOL RFLMOPWSTROM LOL,(Random letters) they will have no clue what you are talking about as well.

 

[SnowyMacie]

Yeah, don't analyse them at all...

If you don't get it, ask indirect questions; nothing creepy, possessive, or desperate though... just ask and if they say something along the lines of you're reading too much into nothing, say cool, thought so, but I'd hate to of missed out on something you wanted me to know about you.

You're welcome.

No, no it's about finding meaning in what she said, but reasoning behind it. It's really none of my business. She and I are having lunch together and she's bringing a friend (which I don't have a problem with for several reasons like we don't each other a decent amount but not that well, etc.). I'm only over thinking the smily face.

 

[Nom De Guerre]

haha, yeah, that's waaaaaaaaaaaayyyyyyyyy over analysing something that could be nothing. Just enjoy your lunch together and see what happens there.

 

[SnowyMacie]

haha, yeah, that's waaaaaaaaaaaayyyyyyyyy over analysing something that could be nothing. Just enjoy your lunch together and see what happens there.

I know, and I will. I hate eating in front of people, but I guess I would have to do it at some point.

 

[Nom De Guerre]

Meh, don't make it a big deal and she won't; seriously.

If you do, she'll pick up on it and probably begin to feel the same way; likewise if you don't.