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boughtwithaprice said:
I see no conflict with four of the five points of calvinism that I mentioned and Roman Catholicism.
Jerome, there are multiple conflicts between every point of Calvinism and the doctrines of the Catholic church.

First is the belief of man's total depravity. As you know if you studied Calvinism, this part of the acrostic does not imply that man is utterly depraved. IOW, we know that man is not as bad as he can possibly be. God's grace, in some form of restraint, falls on the just and the unjust keeping him from being as bad as he can be, be he elect or not. What "total" does allude to is the scope of man's fall. His nature was corrupted at every point, down to the deepest point of his origin. This corruption has resulted in man's complete moral inability to seek God. The problem with this point of the chain is that the Roman church does not ascribe a complete inability of all men to recognize his need for a Savior. They preach a form of semi-Pelagianism as I understand it. As I have been led to believe by other Catholics, your church teaches that though man, in his fallen state, is unable to come to Christ apart from the grace of God, that very grace does not always accomplish it's intended result, i.e., a person's salvation. For me this begs the question, "why does it lead to salvation for some but not for others?" I ask, "where is the difference to be found?" The answer I invariably get is, "the difference is found in ourselves, in our free will to accept or reject that grace." Is this how the Calvinist sees fallen man? Is there any part of our theology in which we point to ourselves, be it our will, our actions, our faith, or our works as the definitive basis for our own salvation? Of course not. Unlike the Catholic we do recognize our own inability. We do view our Fall in the proper light. You see, though Catholics will acknowledge man's fall as devestating to his morality, they do not see this corruption as Paul saw it. He [Paul] recognized that this corruption was so devestating to man's nature that it was, in fact, a form of death. Do dead men seek God? Do dead men respond in faith? Both Catholic and Protestant would answer, unequivocably, no. Diversion point number two. Catholics see the Fall as devestating but not fatal. They carry the analogy too far. They, and we, recognize that man still has a nature so the Fall can't have literally killed his nature. The difference is that they see the Fall as merely "wounding" the nature of man. Now, let it be known, reformed Christians understand that the Fall is analogous to death but it is not a literal death. We know that humans, both regenerate and unregenerate, live, at least in the humanistic sense. We breathe, we make decisions, we take action. However, we also understand that man's nature is beyond wounded. He has no "island of righteousness" of which the Roman would point to as a fallback. We fully acknowledge that in our fallen, unregenerate state we are completely incapable of desiring to serve God, much less actually doing it. The first letter of the acrostic T.U.L.I.P. leaves much to be desired if we are looking for common ground.

On to the second, the "U." I'll try to be brief because I don't think there is much disagreement that Catholics don't see eye to eye with reformed Christians on the belief of God's unconditional election. I've never been led to believe that Catholic Christians believed in unconditional election. The closest form of election with which most Catholics will even associate is the view of God's "foreknowledge." This word, "foreknowledge," too is misused. It does not mean merely "to know ahead of time," though it does definitely include that. The Catholic will tell you that God looked at time and saw who would, of their own "free will," apart from any divine intervention, choose God. On that he made His decision. That is not unconditional, but rather completely conditional. Ironically, they use the same passage to support their view as the Calvinist uses to dispute it:

Romans 9:11
for the children not yet being born, nor having done any good or evil, that the purpose of God according to election might stand, not of works but of Him who calls

The Catholic will tell you that this passage clearly points out their view, that God chose the younger of the brothers, Jacob, over the older, Esau, before they had done any good works, in fact, before they were even born. Their argument is that neither of the twins had physically done any good works but God, being omniscient, knew that Jacob would choose to serve Him "of his own free will" so He picked Jacob on that basis before Jacob was even born, but that choice did not exclude Jacob's own freely willed choice to serve God.

Again Jerome, this is completely different than what the Calvinist would purport, and, IMO, taking a piece of Scripture that is quite explicit and reading their own anthropocentric beliefs into it. I am not sure how the Catholic reads this passage and gets anything other than that Paul is saying that God chose the younger over the older, contrary to popular Jewish tradition, before they had done any works, in fact, before they were born so that His purpose ACCORDING TO ELECTION would stand. It says, "not of works but of Him who calls." How does the Catholic read that and interpret it as "not of works already performed but of Him who calls?" Please explain?

You have already said that there is conflict with the idea of limited atonement so I will not address that here, though I do want to address your comments on that belief in a moment. On to irresistable grace. My favorite author/theologian uses a completely different acrostic that, IMO, does a much better job of coveying the reformed view of these issues, though, it does not ring with the same catchiness as T.U.L.I.P. He, and I, prefer R.S.D.E.P. These refering to "Radical corruption, sovereign election, definite atonement, efficacious grace, and preservation of the saints."

So, irresistable, or efficacious, grace. What does that mean, and does the Catholic church support the belief? Well, in the reformed circle it means that God's grace always, yes always, accomplishes that for which it was purposed. God never fails. This does not mean that men never resist His grace. We do. It's just that our resistance is not sovereign over God's grace. Now, the Catholic, as well, will tell you that God never fails. However, it is highly inconsistant to say that God seeks the salvation of all of humankind yet does not accomplish that which He seeks but it isn't His failure because He only seeks our salvation so long as we willingly acquiesce. Either God is sovereign and He seeks His own glory by overcoming our fallen obstinacy and redeeming us to the glory of His Son, the reformed view, or, He is more concerned with our glory and ultimately leaves it to us to obtain by accepting His "offer" of salvation, the Catholic view. Where He makes that "offer" in Scripture I'm yet to read. The Catholic will tell you that God seeks our salvation until it is clear that we willfully reject it, and then He stops seeking it. The Catholic will tell you that God will not force His desire upon us at the cost of our free will; Whereas, the reformed Christian will tell you that prior to His intervention we are not free because we are enslaved to our fallen, sinful nature and it is His very act of sovereign, divine intervention that sets us free. It is this act, which involves giving us a new heart (not the muscle but rather the inner man), that creates in us the desire to serve Him willingly, a desire that we lost in the Fall. Once again, the Catholic and reformed views of the points of Calvinism are at odds.

Let's move on to the last point, perseverance/preservation of the saints. The Calvinist will tell you that our salvation was bought at the price of the blood of Christ. It was a required legal transaction between the Father and the Son. It was required because God is Just. He could not just arbitrarily circumvent His own Law, which required payment of death for sinful actions. Had He just disregarded His own Law He would cease to be Holy because He would have lied. Additionally, we would never be able to take comfort in any of the other promises of God. If He just disregarded His own Law on the price of sin how would we know He wouldn't disregard His promise to finish the good work He started in us? How would we know He wouldn't change His own Law to say, "Whosoever believes in the Son has eternal death?" Nothing would be stable at that point. The Calvinist will tell you that the reason we can't lose our salvation isn't because we "persevere" and, by our own power, hold on to it. On the contrary, if the preservation of our salvation was left up to us we'd all, once again, willingly and willfully give it away, just as Adam and Eve did. No, we remain saved because our place in Heaven is held for us by the power of God:

1 Peter 1:3-5
Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who according to His abundant mercy has begotten us again to a living hope through the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead, to an inheritance incorruptible and undefiled and that does not fade away, reserved in heaven for you, who are kept by the power of God through faith for salvation ready to be revealed in the last time.

The Catholic, on the other hand, does not believe that we have any security in our salvation unless we persevere. Our salvation does not rely on the power of God, for which we are to be joyful, but rather upon our own power to love the Lord more than we love the world. In short, we can lose our salvation because remaining saved is a responsibility left to us. The Calvinist, OTOH, will tell you that if we do love the Lord more than we love the world then it is His grace which causes, not enables, causes us to do so. He is the root of our being. He is the cause of our righteousness.

Now, let me briefly address the rest of your post:

The call of the Gospel is universal. Christ commanded us to preach the Gospel to every creature and to make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of The Father, The Son and The Holy Spirit. The big unknown is the identity of the elect. We won't know who they are until we are told by God Himself. So, according to the parable of the wheat and the tares, we must allow both to grow in the church until their works are revealed on the last day. We don't know who is saved and who is not, so we put forth the universal call of the Gospel.
This is in complete accordance with the reformed view of limited atonement. We profess that God has limited the scope of His work on the Cross, not the value. We fully agree that we were commissioned to preach the Gospel to ALL people. We also fully agree that we were never commanded to know, or to determine, the identity of the elect, other than our own status with God. If you study the scope of evangelical missionary work you will see that reformed Christians play a huge role in the process of spreading the Gospel. Calvinists are great contributors to the effort to spread the Word of God because we know that God will bring about His plan through our work of evangelism. If this is true, and it is, wouldn't that contradict what you say here?:

The preaching of limited atonement causes unnecessary discord and strife in the body of Christ and leads to endless speculation as to the identity of those elect, so the Pope declared it heretical.
If it were as you say, that the belief of limited atonement is actually anti progressive to the cause of spreading the Gospel, why, pray tell, would we try so hard? I'll tell you what causes "unnecessary discord and strife in the body of Christ and leads to endless speculation as to the identity of those elect." It's the inaccurate understanding of the Great Commission. You see, Christians were commanded to go out and make disciples of all nations, right? Why are we successful at it? Is it because those who do the missionary work are so learned in the Gospel? How about because they're so articulate? No. Absolutely not. We are successful because God brings the increase. There are two different calls given by God. One is the external call, in which we participate, the preaching of the Gospel. Then there is the internal call of God. God, and God alone, is the causal agent in this call. He sovereignly calls a person from the bondage and death of their sinful fallenness into the grace and mercy of His light, much in the same way Christ resurrected Lazurus. To be sure, Lazurus responded, just as those who receive the inward call of God respond. He, and we, respond in the way a man who has been brought to life responds. We live. And, just like Lazurus, we were helpless to do anything prior to that call. Lazurus didn't seek the Lord and ask Him into his heart. He didn't ask Him to bring him back to life. He was dead.

So, as I see it, the Catholic and the Calvinist disagree on the effect the Fall had on man's nature (T), the basis for being chosen by God (U), the scope of His purpose in atonement(L), the efficacy of God's grace(I), and the source of our preservation(P).

The catholic church teaches salvation by grace through faith, and saving faith always results in good works. We teach that saving faith is not a one time event, but a way of life. The Bible says that we are predestined to good works and faith without works is dead. The catholic church trains the faithful in works of righteousness in order to make their calling and election sure.
Calvinism teaches these same things. No conflict here, as you mention of my signature.
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I hope that this clears up your confusion about my being a Roman Catholic, but recognizing truth in Calvin's doctrine. There are many more things that I would like to discuss with you, Don, if you are willing.
Of course.
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God bless,
Don
 
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Don,

I appologize profusely that I do not have the time to respond to your post in the thoughtful manner that you have displayed in yours. There is a category 4 hurricane headed straight for my part of the world, Virginia Beach, and I must attend to family concerns. You have said that the Catholic Church is Semi-Pelagian, but the Catholic Church condemned semi-pelagianism as heresy in the council of Orange. I will post the cannons of the council here. If you would please review them as they are official Catholic doctrine, and let me know which ones you disagree with, I hope to talk with you further after the storm.

Jerome




About the Council of Orange

The Council of Orange was an outgrowth of the controversy between Augustine and Pelagius. This controversy had to do with degree to which a human being is responsible for his or her own salvation, and the role of the grace of God in bringing about salvation. The Pelagians held that human beings are born in a state of innocence, i.e., that there is no such thing as a sinful nature or original sin.

As a result of this view, they held that a state of sinless perfection was achievable in this life. The Council of Orange dealt with the Semi-Pelagian doctrine that the human race, though fallen and possessed of a sinful nature, is still "good" enough to able to lay hold of the grace of God through an act of unredeemed human will. The Council held to Augustine's view and repudiated Pelagius. The following canons greatly influenced the Reformed doctrine of Total Depravity.

The Canons of the Council of Orange

(529 AD)

CANON 1. If anyone denies that it is the whole man, that is, both body and soul, that was "changed for the worse" through the offense of Adam's sin, but believes that the freedom of the soul remains unimpaired and that only the body is subject to corruption, he is deceived by the error of Pelagius and contradicts the scripture which says, "The soul that sins shall die" (Ezek. 18:20); and, "Do you not know that if you yield yourselves to anyone as obedient slaves, you are the slaves of the one whom you obey?" (Rom. 6:16); and, "For whatever overcomes a man, to that he is enslaved" (2 Pet. 2:19).

CANON 2. If anyone asserts that Adam's sin affected him alone and not his descendants also, or at least if he declares that it is only the death of the body which is the punishment for sin, and not also that sin, which is the death of the soul, passed through one man to the whole human race, he does injustice to God and contradicts the Apostle, who says, "Therefore as sin came into the world through one man and death through sin, and so death spread to all men because all men sinned" (Rom. 5:12).

CANON 3. If anyone says that the grace of God can be conferred as a result of human prayer, but that it is not grace itself which makes us pray to God, he contradicts the prophet Isaiah, or the Apostle who says the same thing, "I have been found by those who did not seek me; I have shown myself to those who did not ask for me" (Rom 10:20, quoting Isa. 65:1).

CANON 4. If anyone maintains that God awaits our will to be cleansed from sin, but does not confess that even our will to be cleansed comes to us through the infusion and working of the Holy Spirit, he resists the Holy Spirit himself who says through Solomon, "The will is prepared by the Lord" (Prov. 8:35, LXX), and the salutary word of the Apostle, "For God is at work in you, both to will and to work for his good pleasure" (Phil. 2:13).

CANON 5. If anyone says that not only the increase of faith but also its beginning and the very desire for faith, by which we believe in Him who justifies the ungodly and comes to the regeneration of holy baptism -- if anyone says that this belongs to us by nature and not by a gift of grace, that is, by the inspiration of the Holy Spirit amending our will and turning it from unbelief to faith and from godlessness to godliness, it is proof that he is opposed to the teaching of the Apostles, for blessed Paul says, "And I am sure that he who began a good work in you will bring it to completion at the day of Jesus Christ" (Phil. 1:6). And again, "For by grace you have been saved through faith; and this is not your own doing, it is the gift of God" (Eph. 2:8). For those who state that the faith by which we believe in God is natural make all who are separated from the Church of Christ by definition in some measure believers.

CANON 6. If anyone says that God has mercy upon us when, apart from his grace, we believe, will, desire, strive, labor, pray, watch, study, seek, ask, or knock, but does not confess that it is by the infusion and inspiration of the Holy Spirit within us that we have the faith, the will, or the strength to do all these things as we ought; or if anyone makes the assistance of grace depend on the humility or obedience of man and does not agree that it is a gift of grace itself that we are obedient and humble, he contradicts the Apostle who says, "What have you that you did not receive?" (1 Cor. 4:7), and, "But by the grace of God I am what I am" (1 Cor. 15:10).

CANON 7. If anyone affirms that we can form any right opinion or make any right choice which relates to the salvation of eternal life, as is expedient for us, or that we can be saved, that is, assent to the preaching of the gospel through our natural powers without the illumination and inspiration of the Holy Spirit, who makes all men gladly assent to and believe in the truth, he is led astray by a heretical spirit, and does not understand the voice of God who says in the Gospel, "For apart from me you can do nothing" (John 15:5), and the word of the Apostle, "Not that we are competent of ourselves to claim anything as coming from us; our competence is from God" (2 Cor. 3:5).

CANON 8. If anyone maintains that some are able to come to the grace of baptism by mercy but others through free will, which has manifestly been corrupted in all those who have been born after the transgression of the first man, it is proof that he has no place in the true faith. For he denies that the free will of all men has been weakened through the sin of the first man, or at least holds that it has been affected in such a way that they have still the ability to seek the mystery of eternal salvation by themselves without the revelation of God. The Lord himself shows how contradictory this is by declaring that no one is able to come to him "unless the Father who sent me draws him" (John 6:44), as he also says to Peter, "Blessed are you, Simon Bar-Jona! For flesh and blood has not revealed this to you, but my Father who is in heaven" (Matt. 16:17), and as the Apostle says, "No one can say 'Jesus is Lord' except by the Holy Spirit" (1 Cor. 12:3).

CANON 9. Concerning the succor of God. It is a mark of divine favor when we are of a right purpose and keep our feet from hypocrisy and unrighteousness; for as often as we do good, God is at work in us and with us, in order that we may do so.

CANON 10. Concerning the succor of God. The succor of God is to be ever sought by the regenerate and converted also, so that they may be able to come to a successful end or persevere in good works.

CANON 11. Concerning the duty to pray. None would make any true prayer to the Lord had he not received from him the object of his prayer, as it is written, "Of thy own have we given thee" (1 Chron. 29:14).

CANON 12. Of what sort we are whom God loves. God loves us for what we shall be by his gift, and not by our own deserving.

CANON 13. Concerning the restoration of free will. The freedom of will that was destroyed in the first man can be restored only by the grace of baptism, for what is lost can be returned only by the one who was able to give it. Hence the Truth itself declares: "So if the Son makes you free, you will be free indeed" (John 8:36).

CANON 14. No mean wretch is freed from his sorrowful state, however great it may be, save the one who is anticipated by the mercy of God, as the Psalmist says, "Let thy compassion come speedily to meet us" (Ps. 79:8), and again, "My God in his steadfast love will meet me" (Ps. 59:10).

CANON 15. Adam was changed, but for the worse, through his own iniquity from what God made him. Through the grace of God the believer is changed, but for the better, from what his iniquity has done for him. The one, therefore, was the change brought about by the first sinner; the other, according to the Psalmist, is the change of the right hand of the Most High (Ps. 77:10).

CANON 16. No man shall be honored by his seeming attainment, as though it were not a gift, or suppose that he has received it because a missive from without stated it in writing or in speech. For the Apostle speaks thus, "For if justification were through the law, then Christ died to no purpose" (Gal. 2:21); and "When he ascended on high he led a host of captives, and he gave gifts to men" (Eph. 4:8, quoting Ps. 68:18). It is from this source that any man has what he does; but whoever denies that he has it from this source either does not truly have it, or else "even what he has will be taken away" (Matt. 25:29).

CANON 17. Concerning Christian courage. The courage of the Gentiles is produced by simple greed, but the courage of Christians by the love of God which "has been poured into our hearts" not by freedom of will from our own side but "through the Holy Spirit which has been given to us" (Rom. 5:5).

CANON 18. That grace is not preceded by merit. Recompense is due to good works if they are performed; but grace, to which we have no claim, precedes them, to enable them to be done.

CANON 19. That a man can be saved only when God shows mercy. Human nature, even though it remained in that sound state in which it was created, could be no means save itself, without the assistance of the Creator; hence since man cannot safe- guard his salvation without the grace of God, which is a gift, how will he be able to restore what he has lost without the grace of God?

CANON 20. That a man can do no good without God. God does much that is good in a man that the man does not do; but a man does nothing good for which God is not responsible, so as to let him do it.

CANON 21. Concerning nature and grace. As the Apostle most truly says to those who would be justified by the law and have fallen from grace, "If justification were through the law, then Christ died to no purpose" (Gal. 2:21), so it is most truly declared to those who imagine that grace, which faith in Christ advocates and lays hold of, is nature: "If justification were through nature, then Christ died to no purpose." Now there was indeed the law, but it did not justify, and there was indeed nature, but it did not justify. Not in vain did Christ therefore die, so that the law might be fulfilled by him who said, "I have come not to abolish them, but to fulfil them" (Matt. 5:17), and that the nature which had been destroyed by Adam might be restored by him who said that he had come "to seek and to save the lost" (Luke 19:10).

CANON 22. Concerning those things that belong to man. No man has anything of his own but untruth and sin. But if a man has any truth or righteousness, it from that fountain for which we must thirst in this desert, so that we may be refreshed from it as by drops of water and not faint on the way.

CANON 23. Concerning the will of God and of man. Men do their own will and not the will of God when they do what displeases him; but when they follow their own will and comply with the will of God, however willingly they do so, yet it is his will by which what they will is both prepared and instructed.

CANON 24. Concerning the branches of the vine. The branches on the vine do not give life to the vine, but receive life from it; thus the vine is related to its branches in such a way that it supplies them with what they need to live, and does not take this from them. Thus it is to the advantage of the disciples, not Christ, both to have Christ abiding in them and to abide in Christ. For if the vine is cut down another can shoot up from the live root; but one who is cut off from the vine cannot live without the root (John 15:5ff).

CANON 25. Concerning the love with which we love God. It is wholly a gift of God to love God. He who loves, even though he is not loved, allowed himself to be loved. We are loved, even when we displease him, so that we might have means to please him. For the Spirit, whom we love with the Father and the Son, has poured into our hearts the love of the Father and the Son (Rom. 5:5).

CONCLUSION. And thus according to the passages of holy scripture quoted above or the interpretations of the ancient Fathers we must, under the blessing of God, preach and believe as follows. The sin of the first man has so impaired and weakened free will that no one thereafter can either love God as he ought or believe in God or do good for God's sake, unless the grace of divine mercy has preceded him. We therefore believe that the glorious faith which was given to Abel the righteous, and Noah, and Abraham, and Isaac, and Jacob, and to all the saints of old, and which the Apostle Paul commends in extolling them (Heb. 11), was not given through natural goodness as it was before to Adam, but was bestowed by the grace of God. And we know and also believe that even after the coming of our Lord this grace is not to be found in the free will of all who desire to be baptized, but is bestowed by the kindness of Christ, as has already been frequently stated and as the Apostle Paul declares, "For it has been granted to you that for the sake of Christ you should not only believe in him but also suffer for his sake" (Phil. 1:29). And again, "He who began a good work in you will bring it to completion at the day of Jesus Christ" (Phil. 1:6). And again, "For by grace you have been saved through faith; and it is not your own doing, it is the gift of God" (Eph. 2:8). And as the Apostle says of himself, "I have obtained mercy to be faithful" (1 Cor. 7:25, cf. 1 Tim. 1:13). He did not say, "because I was faithful," but "to be faithful." And again, "What have you that you did not receive?" (1 Cor. 4:7). And again, "Every good endowment and every perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of lights" (Jas. 1:17). And again, "No one can receive anything except what is given him from heaven" (John 3:27). There are innumerable passages of holy scripture which can be quoted to prove the case for grace, but they have been omitted for the sake of brevity, because further examples will not really be of use where few are deemed sufficient.
 
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Jerome,

I appologize profusely that I do not have the time to respond to your post in the thoughtful manner that you have displayed in yours. There is a category 4 hurricane headed straight for my part of the world, Virginia Beach, and I must attend to family concerns. You have said that the Catholic Church is Semi-Pelagian, but the Catholic Church condemned semi-pelagianism as heresy in the council of Orange. I will post the cannons of the council here. If you would please review them as they are official Catholic doctrine, and let me know which ones you disagree with, I hope to talk with you further after the storm.

I am praying for you and your family and community for safety and protection of property. From someone who is not a stranger to hurricanes, I know what you are going through.

Ask our lady of prompt succor for intercession, she is our patroness here in NO, La. during hurricane season. We have had many close calls but no devastation in 30 or so years.
 
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I'm praying for you too bro. Don't worry about responding. Get to it when you get a chance and then only if you feel like it. You've given me something to read so this will give me a chance.

May the Lord protect you and yours,
Don
 
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Reformationist said:
I'm praying for you too bro. Don't worry about responding. Get to it when you get a chance and then only if you feel like it. You've given me something to read so this will give me a chance.

May the Lord protect you and yours,
Don


Well Don, I guess that frees you up to go ahead and answer me. ;) :)
 
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Shelb5 said:
Well Don, I guess that frees you up to go ahead and answer me.
Ya know Shelb...you and Sensationalist should get together over tea--ya know, as much(edited)BICKERING THAT YOU DO!!!

I mean, both of ya--get over yourselves...your not going to convince either of ya, so what does it matter?

Shelb, I envy you for your incessant typing ability...I'll give ya that...you've got some very educational posts under your belt and have helped me tremendously...

Sensationalist, dude, you're a network engineer...I'm an InfoSec dude...we work hand in hand...I can't give you too much of a hard time, because, well, our career paths serve each other in a way, but for the LOVE OF GOD, dude, you need to get busy or something...I don't think you have enough work to do AT WORK, or your wife needs to get you a honeydoo list or something...

Ahhh...now of course, I say all this out of love...but if I hear any more theological banter out of any one of you...well then, <sigh>...someone's gonna get the beatdown...
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BAchristian said:
Ya know Shelb...you and Sensationalist should get together over tea--ya know, as much(edited)BICKERING THAT YOU DO!!!

I mean, both of ya--get over yourselves...your not going to convince either of ya, so what does it matter?

Shelb, I envy you for your incessant typing ability...I'll give ya that...you've got some very educational posts under your belt and have helped me tremendously...

Sensationalist, dude, you're a network engineer...I'm an InfoSec dude...we work hand in hand...I can't give you too much of a hard time, because, well, our career paths serve each other in a way, but for the LOVE OF GOD, dude, you need to get busy or something...I don't think you have enough work to do AT WORK, or your wife needs to get you a honeydoo list or something...

Ahhh...now of course, I say all this out of love...but if I hear any more theological banter out of any one of you...well then, <sigh>...someone's gonna get the beatdown...
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Hold up there Christian…

I understand that you meant your post tongue in cheek but I do feel the need to address some of your thoughts here.

First “edited”????

Second, I do not think Don deserves to be called Sensationalist. I do not agree with him on theology and I have had to endure sarcasm from him on many occasion as he…I but he is only sharing with us truth as he sees it. It would be a different matter altogether if he was only objecting out of a bias to the Church or a “hatred” and I see no evidence that he is “anti Catholic."

In fact, I think Don is respectful of Catholic beliefs, and he has a genuine interest in learning about them even if he will never agree.

I can say in spite of the “bickering” I honestly like Don, I wouldn’t engage him if I didn’t. I suppose it is because he and I are a lot alike. You see, one of my main drawbacks is that I will not be out done in sarcasm and I figure it this way, we, Don and myself can serve as a throne in one another’s side in order to grow in holiness by resisting the temptation to respond with sarcasm and we are always closest to Jesus when we can forgive and ask to be forgiven.

I apologize if our discussion as been upsetting to the readers but for me on my part and I do not think on Don’s part either, from what I can sense from him, that either one of us are acting from pride, we are genuinely seeking discussion for the sake of serving and better knowing the lord. So there is no need for either of us to “get over ourselves."
 
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Shelb5 said:
First “edited”????
It's used to replace much more sinister words that could be used to amplify meaning, Shelb...

Such as:

Well darn it.

I'm gonna beat the snot out of you.

Shucks.

Gosh darn.

Oh my gosh!!

It's called, slang.

Yeah, I learned French at one time...you should see how they murder their language...it's hard to speak it when you've been taught by the book and then can't comprehend half of what they say...heh...
 
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Most of the folks on this forum are gifted teachers. Reformationist is one of the best!. A teaching gift is perfect when you have students, but put a few teachers together and look out! We are all teachers, we just have to learn to get along. Perhaps it's not doctrine that God wants us to learn here. Just a thought.
 
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In all my time as a member of this MB I've seen maaaaybe 3 people change their views. It seems as if all people want to do is show those who disagree with them how wrong they are.

Just to say, that I've read all the posts here - and Mike's right, Don's a great teacher. I've learned from his discussions with Jerome and Shelb on this thread. (some of them are a bit long though!)

Only 3 people change their views?
I'm surprised... since I've been at CF (5 months or so) I've changed my views on lots of things! - Inter-denominational differences being the biggie. I've doubted / questioned my career as a surgeon after participating in a debate concerning contraception and human interference with God's will. And I've had some really thought-provoking discourse in GA with some of the regulars, which has stopped me in my tracks and made me re-assess my thoughts and position.
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Sure, there are plenty people who are here to argue; people who do not take other views on board and simply post their own, and tell others that their opinion is wrong. They're easy to spot, sometimes harder to ignore...

There are loads of highly intelligent, informed guys here, Christian and Atheist, who are here for a good old banter. They are also great at teaching, and answering questions from us rookies!

Keep up the good work here, Don!

Peace be with you
Emma
 
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Hey all:

I do not know how this turned into a "let's beat up on Don" thread but to get back on track.

I agree I have seen a lot of hearts and minds changed here and I do not believe theological discussions are moot points if no one sees what the other sees.

None of us know what is going on inside the other's heart or mind, we should never under estimate the power of the Holy Spirit working on our will.

Yes that right Don, I said will as in free will, don't pass out. ;) :)

Ps. Wink and smile means joke.
 
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Shelb5 said:
Hey all:

I do not know how this turned into a "let's beat up on Don" thread but to get back on track.
I wasn't beating up on anyone. I thought with the multitude of icons that I had present in my message that it would be considered light-hearty fun...

Guess not...

Regardless, I apologize if anyone was "offended" by it...

And eldermike, sorry about the use of my slang...you're probably right...I shouldn't use a substitute like that...
 
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I have just had one of the most aggravating exhanges in all my time here on this MB and it made me wonder something.

When you participate in a thread, do you actually consider what the other person says or are you just waiting for your turn to give your opinion?

More often than not, and I am just as guilty as anyone else, it seems as if people don't even consider the possibility that they are wrong, no matter what.

Are you like that? Do you give the opinions of others any respect if they contradict your own beliefs? Do you consider what they're saying and consider the possibility that you may be wrong and it would be worthwhile to compare what they say against the Word?

In all my time as a member of this MB I've seen maaaaybe 3 people change their views. It seems as if all people want to do is show those who disagree with them how wrong they are.

I am getting so tired of the arguments...:sigh:
I always try to be careful not to make statements that I can't prove. Even then, I would generally preface my thoughts with 'in my opinion' or 'I believe', that way it wouldn't sound like I claim to be 100% correct. Sometimes I can see some really major errors, and so I'd explain things without sounding like a know it all. It seems to work for me :)

God bless!

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Shelb5 said:
Well Don, I guess that frees you up to go ahead and answer me. ;) :)
LOL! If you can bear it give me a couple of days. I just started a new job yesterday and it's the night shift. Unfortunately I'm still trying to get acclimated to my new hours so I'm working on about two hours sleep.

I promise to get to it though.

God bless,
Don
 
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BAchristian said:
Ya know Shelb...you and Sensationalist should get together over tea--ya know, as much(edited)BICKERING THAT YOU DO!!!
Yeah, I'm a great one for the bickering.
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You make a good point though. When I'm not in a self righteous or prideful mood I'm normally able to have some very productive discussions with Michelle. She always brings up some very good points and it forces me to give my answers some study and thought. I'll try to do better. Thanks for the encouragement.
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I mean, both of ya--get over yourselves...your not going to convince either of ya, so what does it matter?
I think it matters in the sense that if we are going to believe something, whatever it may be, we should at least know why we believe it. Problems arise when I focus more on "being right" or "having the last word" than on seeking to understand my beliefs for godly reasons. I believe God is using Michelle to show me this sinfulness in myself and though I continue to fail in dealing with her it seems that He is also giving her the grace to not give up on me, at least not for very long. I think I've only been on her ignore list one time.
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Sensationalist, dude, you're a network engineer...I'm an InfoSec dude...we work hand in hand...I can't give you too much of a hard time, because, well, our career paths serve each other in a way, but for the LOVE OF GOD, dude, you need to get busy or something...I don't think you have enough work to do AT WORK, or your wife needs to get you a honeydoo list or something...
LOL! Well, your advice has become a reality. I just became a site deployment lead for a major contract so that, coupled with my new hours (12:30 a.m. to 9 a.m.) might do a better job of keeping me busy.

Ahhh...now of course, I say all this out of love...but if I hear any more theological banter out of any one of you...well then, <sigh>...someone's gonna get the beatdown...
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God bless
 
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