I'm going to change my answer a little. When my husband lost his job last year (for the third time) and refused to go out and look for a new one, I lost respect for him. I lost respect because I do believe that the man should be the primary bread winner. I lost respect because I got up and went to work everyday in order to pay the bills so that he could sit at home and do whatever he wanted. He's a full grown healthy man. Fully capable of working and providing for his family, but he chose not to.
Sorry, I know that sounds awful, but it's the truth.
Edited to add: But I still didn't think I had any power over him. If I had any kind of power I would have been able to talk him into getting a new job before things got so bad.
Honestly that's reasonable and I'll lose respect for him.
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