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Do girls like to be stared at?

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Do girls like to be stared at?

Some do.

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Probably depends how attractive you are, I know that it's annoying when people I don't view as attractive stare at me, then again those who I do find attractive make me anxious.
 
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what if a girl stares at you?

Then I tell them i'm in lesbians with them.

I'll take stares from any source. Good ones, bad ones, oh my word who scraped you off their shoe ones ... I like to see how they react to further interactions.
 
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Double post, so i'll clarify:

stranger + staring + drooling + lack of explanation outside of staring at me = uncomfortable.

stranger + staring + lack of intense "i'm mentally engaging in coitus with you" eyes = flirty fun.

How does one give off that flirty fun look in one's eyes?
 
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How does one give off that flirty fun look in one's eyes?

-looks at you and smiles-
-looks away briefly-
-looks again and a serious face comes on my face-

Ha. That.

But it's not really flirty fun.
It's just staring quizzically wondering why they're staring until one/the other gets uncomfortable and runs away. Like a stare off.
 
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I actually have a code of ethics when it comes to stares. It's simple: she is her own property. If you take without asking you're more likely to offend than to please (note that I said likely to, not certain to). If you want to be safe wait until she's advertising (intentionally).
How would one advertise?

The Mating Dance - A must see!!!! - YouTube
 
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what if a girl stares at you?

Assuming the question is to do with attraction, well I wouldn't want a single girl staring at me in a lustful way, I feel like I'm being used for mental masturbation. I get this occasionally, I don't like desperate women. If I was married to her I'd be fine with it. If it's out of admiration or something more innocent like that, I'm cool with it. You can kind of sense the difference.
 
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Assuming the question is to do with attraction, well I wouldn't want a single girl staring at me in a lustful way, I feel like I'm being used for mental masturbation. I get this occasionally, I don't like desperate women. If I was married to her I'd be fine with it.
Woah.
 
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yeah, desperation generally isn't very attractive, but there's shades of grey in that area and a glance even obviously indicating desire isn't exactly a desperate stare.

And FTR, I would prefer that the woman I end up marrying actually had desire for me before I married her, otherwise marriage would be sort of ridiculous don't you think?
Yes.
 
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What if a dog stared at you?

That depends on the type of stare. Some dogs I give a wide berth, others I chuck a treat at, some I call cutie patatooties and blow raspberries on their head. Dogs are so much easier than people.
 
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