First, my brief background:
I was raised in a very liberal protestant church; the Bible was not highly regarded at all. Many people were supportive of abortion rights, homosexuality, divorce for any reason (oh my, the number of men who left their wives, then started bringing their new girlfriends to church was astounding). OK, you get the idea, I grew up in an "anything goes" church. I was saved at the age of 16 (through the witnessing of a friend), and was then somewhat mocked by people in my church for thinking I was now "saved."
I kind of "wandered" for many years, being saved, but not finding a church that seemed to take the Bible seriously. I'll fast forward about 15 years from that point:
I found an independent Bible church (pretty much like General Association of Regular Baptist Churches). My very first service there was wonderful! In fact, someone else who posted in the "why I left the rcc" thread had a post that sounded just like my experience. I heard SO much clear and bold Bible teaching that first week! The pastor was not afraid of preaching the Word!! (that first sermon was on the role of women in the church, and I remember thinking that the women in my childhood church would have all hurled hymnals at him for what he said!)
So, his preaching was a breath of fresh air to me. Having grown up in an "anything goes" church, I was longing to be in a church that really took a stand on things, that was really black and white, that would use the Bible seriously and say "this means SUCH AND SO".
OK, now fast forward another decade or so. The "black and white" that appealled to me so much 10 years ago, has started to seem arrogant and narrow. Like the TULIP points: for every scriptural argument FOR a tulip point, there is (imo) an equally valid scriptural argument AGAINST it. It becomes a no-win Scripture Ping-Pong game.
I'm at a point in my life where I have to say "I DON'T KNOW what I believe about eternal security, or election/predestination, or pre, mid, or post-trib" etc. Sometimes I get frustrated that God didn't make these things more clear (and please don't try to convince me that these issues are clear--great theologians through the centuries have debated many doctrinal issues). I'm at the point where I feel like it would be arrogant for me to say "I KNOW exactly what God means in these various doctrinal issues." HOW CAN I KNOW? No one seems to be able to agree on everything.
Is it ok for me to be a Christian, know that I'm saved, live for the Lord the best I can, and just totally not know/care/worry about how many points of TULIP I believe, or other confusing doctrinal issues?
Are there actually any churches who stand firm on a few "main things," but don't have a definite stand on secondary doctrinal issues? It is starting to really bother me when our pastor kind of "puts down" other denominations for their "unbiblical beliefs" (when those beliefs do have a biblical basis, but they just interpret the Bible differently).
I was raised in a very liberal protestant church; the Bible was not highly regarded at all. Many people were supportive of abortion rights, homosexuality, divorce for any reason (oh my, the number of men who left their wives, then started bringing their new girlfriends to church was astounding). OK, you get the idea, I grew up in an "anything goes" church. I was saved at the age of 16 (through the witnessing of a friend), and was then somewhat mocked by people in my church for thinking I was now "saved."
I kind of "wandered" for many years, being saved, but not finding a church that seemed to take the Bible seriously. I'll fast forward about 15 years from that point:
I found an independent Bible church (pretty much like General Association of Regular Baptist Churches). My very first service there was wonderful! In fact, someone else who posted in the "why I left the rcc" thread had a post that sounded just like my experience. I heard SO much clear and bold Bible teaching that first week! The pastor was not afraid of preaching the Word!! (that first sermon was on the role of women in the church, and I remember thinking that the women in my childhood church would have all hurled hymnals at him for what he said!)
So, his preaching was a breath of fresh air to me. Having grown up in an "anything goes" church, I was longing to be in a church that really took a stand on things, that was really black and white, that would use the Bible seriously and say "this means SUCH AND SO".
OK, now fast forward another decade or so. The "black and white" that appealled to me so much 10 years ago, has started to seem arrogant and narrow. Like the TULIP points: for every scriptural argument FOR a tulip point, there is (imo) an equally valid scriptural argument AGAINST it. It becomes a no-win Scripture Ping-Pong game.
I'm at a point in my life where I have to say "I DON'T KNOW what I believe about eternal security, or election/predestination, or pre, mid, or post-trib" etc. Sometimes I get frustrated that God didn't make these things more clear (and please don't try to convince me that these issues are clear--great theologians through the centuries have debated many doctrinal issues). I'm at the point where I feel like it would be arrogant for me to say "I KNOW exactly what God means in these various doctrinal issues." HOW CAN I KNOW? No one seems to be able to agree on everything.
Is it ok for me to be a Christian, know that I'm saved, live for the Lord the best I can, and just totally not know/care/worry about how many points of TULIP I believe, or other confusing doctrinal issues?
Are there actually any churches who stand firm on a few "main things," but don't have a definite stand on secondary doctrinal issues? It is starting to really bother me when our pastor kind of "puts down" other denominations for their "unbiblical beliefs" (when those beliefs do have a biblical basis, but they just interpret the Bible differently).