Ok, I am not sure where I stand on this issue right now, so I'm looking for other's thoughts and opinions. The story is:
My best friend introduced me to her 24 year old cousin, who she's been wanting me to meet for a while. It turns out we have a lot in common and became close in a very short period of time. He is a Christian, a gentleman, an avid reader, intelligent, sociable, and very down-to-earth. I've grown very fond of him. On the flip side, he is divorced and the father of a 4-year-old girl. Basically he made some mistakes with a girl when he was younger and married her in hopes that it was the right thing to do. Unfortunately it was not, and now he is single - and not only that - but he is stationed in Spain in the Air Force. I've been cautioned not to pursue a relationship with him because of these many "taboos", however I cannot cease having feelings for him. I never imagined dating someone with this kind of background - and I know I would find conflict with my family. I see him as forgiven, not only by God, but by himself and his family, but when I think of him, I see him for who he is and not the mistakes he may have made in the past. I am praying for God's guidance and blessings, but I also wonder if I am only getting myself into a situation that is dangerous territory.
My best friend introduced me to her 24 year old cousin, who she's been wanting me to meet for a while. It turns out we have a lot in common and became close in a very short period of time. He is a Christian, a gentleman, an avid reader, intelligent, sociable, and very down-to-earth. I've grown very fond of him. On the flip side, he is divorced and the father of a 4-year-old girl. Basically he made some mistakes with a girl when he was younger and married her in hopes that it was the right thing to do. Unfortunately it was not, and now he is single - and not only that - but he is stationed in Spain in the Air Force. I've been cautioned not to pursue a relationship with him because of these many "taboos", however I cannot cease having feelings for him. I never imagined dating someone with this kind of background - and I know I would find conflict with my family. I see him as forgiven, not only by God, but by himself and his family, but when I think of him, I see him for who he is and not the mistakes he may have made in the past. I am praying for God's guidance and blessings, but I also wonder if I am only getting myself into a situation that is dangerous territory.