Did husband commit adultery too?

[Mayzoo]

I stand by my earlier comment. You need to get right with Christ first, then from that perspective review your marriage and make your choices. Good luck and God bless.

 

[WalksWithChrist]

So much has happened that I can't even remember anything anymore. Or what happened first in this relationship and marriage.

Yes we was talking before I hit 18 but we didn't officially date til I was 18. Him moving in with us and everyone kept asking when you guys going to get married.

I do remember one situation a long while back when I was 19 or so he used fear to control me from leaving him.

I was hanging with friends on New Years when me and him got into a argument on the phone well one of my friends took the phone from me and started talking to him and they got into a argument on the phone he ended up yelling his address over the speaker phone and they all decided to try to go there to start something with him. I did not go with them.

Later on him the one I'm married to now calls me up later says u could get in trouble u was there leader and they came here trying to hurt me and the people that live upstairs videoed everything too and it's all been turned into the police dept. he said I've got them to cool off for now though.

He claimed sense my group of friends came driving by every night late 2am trying to vandalize and he would stop them every night. When I tried to break up with him once he was like ok but but if something happens around here I won't stop it and u could go to jail.

Eventually I got the courage to go to the police dept to see if there was really a report filed like he had said and there was no report on file.

Now today he seemed upset I was talking to a friend on the phone so he takes off on the bike and says see you later. Ugh why would god put something like this together and I feel so trapped that I got involved with another man. Now I am not aloud having someone else after we divorce. And what about all his women in leather on his computer.. Or about him and his former spouse both committing adultery on each other she did it first but he also did it too and then I married him !!!

Never mind anyone else...what do you want to do?

 

[coolchicka]

Never mind anyone else...what do you want to do?

He admitted to me he also commuted adultery in his previous marriage him and his ex wife both commuted adultery with someone.

 

[DZoolander]

That really wasn't an answer to the question.

 

[sdmsanjose]

[FONT=&quot]Coolchicka[/FONT]
[FONT=&quot]If you really want to help yourself then listen and act[FONT=&quot] on[/FONT] what has already been told to you on this forum; see below[/FONT]


[FONT=&quot]Originally Posted by WalksWithChrist[/FONT]
[FONT=&quot]Never mind anyone else...what do you want to do?[/FONT]
[FONT=&quot]
By Coolchicka[/FONT]
[FONT=&quot]He admitted to me he also commuted adultery in his previous marriage him and his ex wife both commuted adultery with someone.[/FONT]

[FONT=&quot]By EZ[/FONT]
[FONT=&quot]That really wasn't an answer to the question.[/FONT]
[FONT=&quot]Right EZ, just another Dodge by Coolchicka![/FONT]


[FONT=&quot]By Mayzoo[/FONT]
[FONT=&quot]I stand by my earlier comment. You need to get right with Christ first, then from that perspective review your marriage and make your choices. Good luck and God bless.[/FONT]

[FONT=&quot]Coolchicka, the only person that you can change is you![/FONT]

[FONT=&quot]EZ seems to have summed you up when he said[/FONT]
[FONT=&quot]She's either a (understandably) really disturbed/confused person, or she's a troll.[/FONT]

[FONT=&quot]I will add one more possibility. Coolchicka just wants to blame others, whine, and not take her responsibility. She has been given good advice but what matters is if she takes the proper actions.[/FONT]

 

[WalksWithChrist]

He admitted to me he also commuted adultery in his previous marriage him and his ex wife both commuted adultery with someone.

I hear you.

What do *you* want to do?