Did anyone else...

[VintageDon]

Again, I am sorry if I intruded.

You didn't intrude at all. In fact, quite the opposite, you added value to the conversation

 

[somebodysangel_88]

Oh, okay!
After my second ex-boyfriend, I never thought I'd love again. In fact, the day we (my fiance and I) became official (as a couple), we bickered like siblings!

 

[Verve]

Oh, okay!
After my second ex-boyfriend, I never thought I'd love again. In fact, the day we (my fiance and I) became official (as a couple), we bickered like siblings!

So, have you two set a date?

 

[somebodysangel_88]

We have a date but no year. We want to keep our anniversary our wedding anniversary. So August 30th of whatever year!

 

[Verve]

We have a date but no year. We want to keep our anniversary our wedding anniversary. So August 30th of whatever year!

Ok, see that's one other thing I don't get. Getting engaged and not setting a real tangible date. Why do people do that? It's just the same as dating but there's a ring on your finger. That would just irritate me.

I've seen couples string along as "engaged" for years. It doesn't make sense to me. Why not just get married?

 

[somebodysangel_88]

He and I would love to be able to get married as soon as possible. Buuut, we both need a job right now.

 

[Verve]

He and I would love to be able to get married as soon as possible. Buuut, we both need a job right now.

Ah, that makes sense. I've seen some pretty silly reasons that people have postponed their weddings.

 

[Inkachu]

If you look up articles on courting vs. dating, usually courting is viewed more as a period leading up to marriage. I've also viewed it personally as this. Some people view it a bit different, but I believe the more widely accepted version is that courtship is about marriage.

A good quote from a website:

Exactly how I view it, too.

And since we're the resident "older" couple (*shudder*), I don't expect some of you (ahem, Caitlyn lol) to be ready to walk down the aisle tomorrow, lol. Take your time!! I was most certainly NOT ready for marriage in my early 20's.

 

[Verve]

Exactly how I view it, too.

And since we're the resident "older" couple (*shudder*), I don't expect some of you (ahem, Caitlyn lol) to be ready to walk down the aisle tomorrow, lol. Take your time!! I was most certainly NOT ready for marriage in my early 20's.

You think we're in our early 20s! Awww

 

[VintageDon]

Thanks Don! Well I always looked at dating from a more serious standpoint.
I'm certainly being wooed by someone who also takes the idea of entering a relationship seriously. I guess I just always looked at it all as dating.

Same here, and so glad for you (I almost ee'ed here, but managed to maintain my manly dignity).

 

[Verve]

Same here, and so glad for you (I almost ee'ed here, but managed to maintain my manly dignity).

Well, you and Vicky make me want to go Eeeeee quite often as well.
You two are adorable. Then again I don't have any manly dignity to keep.

So I'll just keep on being girly about all the love in the air.

 

[Inkachu]

Well, you're hiding your age, missie, so I'm assuming here lol. I know you guys aren't even close to 30, so my statement still stands!

 

[mina]

We have a date but no year. We want to keep our anniversary our wedding anniversary. So August 30th of whatever year!

That's my birthday! So ya'll have a good day!!! hehe