timewerx
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Price is not the only thing you must consider. You also need to fulfill your need for living in a developed society - proximity to work, to school, to hospitals, to dentists, to retirement homes of your parents/grandparents, veterinary... It must be large enough for a family etc. Of course there are cheaper and more expensive things, but even the cheaper ones are quite expensive.
Also, to go for the cheapest option is not always possible. Imagine for example a kid in a school. Everybody around them have mobile phones or clothes as a sign of their social status. Sure, you could buy your children some cheap old dumb phone from 10 years ago, but you would know they would suffer because of it, might be even bullied. You also do not want your children to be the only ones in town who have never been anywhere.
Figures. Ironically, we'll have to make a choice between who you will love more, your kids, wife, mom, dad, or doing what Jesus wants us to do. The wording on the Bible is pretty harsh "unless you hate your children....". I don't think that's literal but you get the point.
It's probably why Apostle Paul said it's better to be single - so you don't have to deal with these dilemmas. Even Jesus said it would be better not to be pregnant. Ultimately better not to have kids as we're probably in the last days and the days are evil.
But I really don't have a say or opinion on this matter because I've never been married, never had kids.
Living in a highly developed society forces you to keep certain standards of living and of acceptable behavior for your family and yourself.
James 4:4 - friendship with the world is hatred towards God.
Can you see the pattern now? What we do to the least of our brethren, we do unto the Lord (Matthew 25:40)
But if you seek friendship with the world, you won't be able to anything about least, thus showing neglect (and hatred) towards God.
I'm not trying to rebuke your or anything because I saw your status as "single" so none of this applies to you. This message is for somebody else.
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