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[LoveJC9]

Well, that's a good start. I still think that maybe you should find a women's shelter somewhere that would be closer to public transportation and job opportunities. They would probably be more able and/or willing to help you as far as securing a job. Sounds like right now you're out in the boonies and disconnected from society which isn't good at all.

i'm really not making excuses i am just telling you about the area i live. there is only one homeless shelter and you can only stay 3 nights or something crazy like that and you have to be gone during the day. so i dont know what i would do with my daughter. so at this point that isn't an option.

i am working on changing things though. if he leaves it really isn't an issue. i can stay here forever. plus people give cars to the people who live here all the time. i should be next to get one.

 

[leothelioness]

i'm really not making excuses i am just telling you about the area i live. there is only one homeless shelter and you can only stay 3 nights or something crazy like that and you have to be gone during the day. so i dont know what i would do with my daughter. so at this point that isn't an option.

i am working on changing things though. if he leaves it really isn't an issue. i can stay here forever. plus people give cars to the people who live here all the time. i should be next to get one.

And if you do, then drive as far as you have to to find a shelter that can take you and your daughter. My point being, you can change any circumstance if you are bound and determined to do so.

I also found it odd how you threw out there that you're not making excuses. When people start answering questions that haven't been asked....that's usually an indicator. Not being harsh, just honest.

 

[LoveJC9]

And if you do, then drive as far as you have to to find a shelter that can take you and your daughter. My point being, you can change any circumstance if you are bound and determined to do so.

I also found it odd how you threw out there that you're not making excuses. When people start answering questions that haven't been asked....that's usually an indicator. Not being harsh, just honest.

i just didn't want it thrown out there oh you have an excuse not to take anyones suggestions. i do want to change something in my life, i am just trying to figure out where to start at this point.

 

[leothelioness]

i just didn't want it thrown out there oh you have an excuse not to take anyones suggestions. i do want to change something in my life, i am just trying to figure out where to start at this point.

Why would you be afraid of it being thrown out there if it wasn't a possible reason to begin with?

Anyway, best of luck.

 

[LoveJC9]

Why would you be afraid of it being thrown out there if it wasn't a possible reason to begin with?

Anyway, best of luck.

so many things i say on here get twisted, i am almost scared to post.

 

[Beauty4Ashes]

At the very least, maybe this thread will be a warning to those young girls out there who have low self esteem and like bad boys so they don't end end up in a similar situation.

Praying for you and your situation, LoveJC

 

[jameseb]

so many things i say on here get twisted, i am almost scared to post.

Hey, don't be.

 

[LoveJC9]

At the very least, maybe this thread will be a warning to those young girls out there who have low self esteem and like bad boys so they don't end end up in a similar situation.

Praying for you and your situation, LoveJC

If my life could just help one person not to walk down the paths I have, it is all well worth it.

Thank you for your prayers.