- Mar 25, 2007
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So I was talking to a friend about something I was dealing with and we got into this pretty nice discussion that I'd like to share a bit of and let you guys discuss and see what you think. And debating is allowed.
Okay, so I was telling her that I was fine being single but I'm starting to get to the point where I know I don't *need* a guy, but I want one. And of course she started the whole "But God loves you, you don't ever need a guy to complete you, etc etc." Which is true. I don't. But that isn't the point.. My point is of course I don't need a guy..But I want that nice feeling of having a guy who's only interested in making you happy, telling all of his tired ol unfunny jokes just to make you smile lol, I want a guy who I can just spend time with and if we don't say anything at all it would be ok. And described a few other qualities I want. Well she immediate said "don't be desperate". I'm not desperate. I'm not gonna grab the next guy who says "hey there ". So I guess here is my question. I know that you don't need a guy to be happy, but even tho I love God totally and completely is it okay to just want that companionship or whatever you'd like to call it, Or am I just sounding desperate for a guy to just come along?
Okay, so I was telling her that I was fine being single but I'm starting to get to the point where I know I don't *need* a guy, but I want one. And of course she started the whole "But God loves you, you don't ever need a guy to complete you, etc etc." Which is true. I don't. But that isn't the point.. My point is of course I don't need a guy..But I want that nice feeling of having a guy who's only interested in making you happy, telling all of his tired ol unfunny jokes just to make you smile lol, I want a guy who I can just spend time with and if we don't say anything at all it would be ok. And described a few other qualities I want. Well she immediate said "don't be desperate". I'm not desperate. I'm not gonna grab the next guy who says "hey there ". So I guess here is my question. I know that you don't need a guy to be happy, but even tho I love God totally and completely is it okay to just want that companionship or whatever you'd like to call it, Or am I just sounding desperate for a guy to just come along?