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Don't cry. I know that you feel lonely. Many of us here feel the same way. Just because you don't have a girlfriend doesn't mean that you're worthless. Look inside yourself. I know it is hard, but try to find what things are going good for you in your life right now. I know things look and feel hopeless right now, but things will get better, soon. I can't tell from your age if you're in High School still or starting out in college, but either way, you are on the brink of the best time of your life. You just haven't discovered it. I know you want a girlfriend. But look at it this way, there are a lot of people who don't date until they're older. I didn't find my first boyfriend until I was 18, and I am my current boyfriend's first girlfriend. (He's 25 now, but he was 22 when we started dating). I was the loner of all loners in High School. I had a handful of people I called my friends, but they were really just people who occasionally talked to me. I never went to a single High School dance, and I didn't even have someone to hang out with after school or on the weekends. But then I went to college, and you know what? Things changed! Now I have so many friends that I cannot count them all, not to mention a wonderful boyfriend who I love very much and might end up marrying. People are much more mature and welcoming in college. I guess what I'm saying is, do not give up! Things will get better. I will pray for you, that God may take away your pain and lonliness and give you some friends and perhaps even a girlfriend. But, never forget that you are never completely friendless. Jesus is the truest friend who will never abandon us. Just talk to him! PM me anytime!
 
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I ask you to surround this young man with your love. Give him peace and understanding. Take away his feelings of loneliness and unhappiness and replace them with joy. Help him to realize that he doesn't need to have a woman in his life to make his life worthwhile. Help him to learn to love himself again, for it is only when you begin to love yourself that you can begin to be loved by others. I ask all this in Jesus' name. Amen.
 
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you should go out and do things that make feel better. Just sitting around the house gives your mind time to wander. If you truley want a girlfriend be yourself. If you don't act like all the guys do at school, you will ve known to understand the ladies. If your honest and sensitive alot of girls will like you. Every girl wants a guy that understands them and if you show them your that guy they will stick to you like a leach. If you want help with anything else I would love to help you out just email me at catlover26@hotmail.com or pm me. Hope things get better! God bless.
 
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