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They probably won't be found in elementary school libraries, at any rate...Yes, and on the whole, they're awful, a waste of 2 hours of your life. I'm just wondering whether they're illegal in the state of Florida.
Since when has obscene and sexually graphic content ever had protective factors?But we are taking it as read that that is an outcome.
Do you have some research or data to support that?
What if reading these books ends up being protective factors?
In the same way that telling kids about birth control is a GOOD THING which leads to POSITIVE statistical outcomes even though to some people it is morally questionable and harmful.
But we are taking it as read that that is an outcome.
Do you have some research or data to support that?
What if reading these books ends up being protective factors?
Nobody is arguing that there is a sexualization amongst children. That has been going on for...i dunno, decades at least. I'm not talking about broad strokes education, we were talking specifically about books. I'd love to see the study if you happen to know the link for it.Yes. The APA did a comprehensive study on the sexualization of young girls in childhood across multiple mediums...including education....back in 2014. If you want the short version of the results....it's bad.
seems crazy that ACTUAL books are not on that list (and, ps. notice the dates). This is not a new issue.Evidence for the sexualization of girls
Virtually every media form studied provides ample evidence of the sexualization of women, including television, music videos, music lyrics, movies, magazines, sports media, video games, the Internet and advertising (e.g., Gow, 1996; Grauerholz & King, 1997; Krassas, Blauwkamp,& Wesselink, 2001, 2003; Lin, 1997; Plous & Neptune, 1997; Vincent, 1989; Ward, 1995). Some studies have examined forms of media that are especially popular with children and adolescents, such as video games and teen-focused magazines.
Source?Then there's also the fact that teaching children about sexual behavior and it's related topics are considered "grooming" techniques by child abuse prevention advocates. The reason being is children are impressionable, and normalizing any such behavior in their minds is the first step towards engaging in such behavior.
I know plenty of children who play dress up. My son and daughter were included in that list. They turned out just fine.One would think that instead of experimenting on children, you would already have evidence of any of this garbage being of benefit to children in any way.
Nobody is arguing that there is a sexualization amongst children.
Source?
Heard plenty of stories of people realizing that they were actually in abusive situations ONLY BECAUSE they had learned it in a sex ed class.
I know plenty of children who play dress up. My son and daughter were included in that list. They turned out just fine.
Sex Education classes.
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We have them up here in Canada. It's not really "sex ed" in the way it's conventionally understood but yes we have it hear.Since when have K-3rd graders needed sex ed classes?
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We have them up here in Canada. It's not really "sex ed" in the way it's conventionally understood but yes we have it hear.
I'd wager most places in the US have the same kind of information given to their kids but I suppose it could be wrong.
Yeah? You like your teen pregnancy rates high do ya?I have no idea what you have up in Canada, nor do I seek to emulate it.
Really? Crazy. Ours start in gr4 with conversations around your bodies happenning in gr2.You would be wrong. We typically have sex ed basics in middle school at the soonest, and a more in depth sex ed in high school....though it varies some state to state.
I saw a few of the books already. I searched them out online and looked through several of them.Look....you've been in these various book banning threads that have been going on for close to a year now, right? Parents trying to get books removed from their children's libraries, parents getting them removed from classrooms....even a thread that I recall where an entire library was defunded because they refused to remove these books....
I don't remember exactly what you posted or in which threads. I'm not wrong, am I? You were defending these books in some of them right?
Buddy, friend, guy....here's your big chance. Go click on the link in the OP. At the top of the page is a video player with a caption that says click here to begin video presentation. Click on the link and watch the video. It's going to show what is in those books you've been defending....right from their own pages. Yes, it's the same books. You can go back to any of those threads about parents who want to ban books from schools and see the book titles in those articles. The video is going to show you what's in the books themselves.
It can't possibly be easier, you have no excuse for not seeing what is in the books you're defending.
Once you watched the video....tell me what you think is going to be appropriate for a school kids library. We don't post guards around these books to ensure only the appropriate age checks them out. Librarians don't prevent 8yo children from reading something in the library. Any of those books is a book a child would be able to access....and I would like to know which one's you think are appropriate.
Yeah? You like your teen pregnancy rates high do ya?
Really? Crazy. Ours start in gr4 with conversations around your bodies happenning in gr2.
I saw a few of the books already. I searched them out online and looked through several of them.
If gender queer was being shown to gr1-3 I agree that's inappropriate. But high school? Sure.
What I know is not happening is what I hear the pearl grabbers complaining about.
There have been plenty of books banned in Florida that should NOT have been banned.
Yes there are some shocking books that I can understand why folks would have a problem with it. But there are many MORE books where it is clearly NOT about sexuality or protecting children so much as about shielding children from the knowledge of experiences different from theirs.
Banning a book about having two dads should not be happening. Banning a book for children because genitals are showing, okay. I disagree but I see the logic. One of my issue is that these two are being conflated.
Is it obscene and sexually graphic?Really? Crazy. Ours start in gr4 with conversations around your bodies happenning in gr2.
So you are for showing kids obscene and sexually graphic material?Sex Education classes.
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I'm for upper elementary kids being show pictures of naked people to help them understand how their bodies will change.So you are for showing kids obscene and sexually graphic material?
Are you for showing upper ages obscene and graphically sexual material?I'm for upper elementary kids being show pictures of naked people to help them understand how their bodies will change.
That's not what I asked.For people who think ANY nudity is those things, yes. But for a reasonable rational person, no.
Yes it was. The answer was just less binary (yes/no) than you'd hoped.That's not what I asked.
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