Negative words against others can allow spirits to attack. Witches uses words to curse people too.
I don't mean words that hurt feelings only i mean words said against a person even when they didn't hear them too.
If you think of the child as under the authority of the parents.. then the threshold may be that low. i have second hand observational experience in this when i asked someone, a year after an exorcism, to go "back into" that experience (in their mind) to identify if there were any additional "open doors" as to how the demons got in. all they saw was their mom, opening the door. no one/no nothing else.
But as adults, i know that what people say against me behind my back does not spiritually harm me.
basically, and i'm at odds with a local church in my hometown that has gone overboard with this stuff..... what happens is you end up teaching a spirit of fear.
be afraid of every negative thought in your mind.
be afraid of every negative word spoken in front or behind your back.
be afraid of witches you've never met cursing your church/house/ministry/etc.
be afraid of not taking advantage of and utilizing your authority in Jesus to fix all these problems, including the fear problem.
so this becomes a circular loop. be afraid.. but not be afraid at the same time.
i know a woman who has been afraid of me for the last 5 years. not because of me.. but because 5 years ago i asked her why wouldn't you want me to reconcile with my ex. and in reply all she could utter is "that woman is evil, stay away from her"
so because i look forwards to fixing this problem, she is afraid of me too. and my ex, but because i wanted to reconcile (at the time mind you) she is too afraid to tell me what she knows.
so she goes to this church i'm speaking of. and, i coincidentally met the (soon to be new) pastor, and caught up with another friend i hadn't seen in like 20 years. (this wass 2 months ago)
the new pastor seemed more interested in clinging to his "power and authority" message, declaring to me God wanted to set me free of this nonsense.. than he was concerned with the woman's fear.. of both of us.
so a few nights ago i emailed the church and told them the matter i spoke of needs to be taken seriously..
i have a gut feeling i'm not going to get a reply...