Depression & Loneliness

[jpeter77]

Hi i just joined this i have been diagonsed with depression which recently has turned into an addition of anger along with it. I feel my life has gone absolutley no where.

I have never dated i am 28 years old never had a girlfriend nevver any of that stuff eveyone else my age has done. I feel as if i am a whole waste. When i go out with work friends it just makes me mad and more depressed i tend to just get really fricken drunk and smashed to supress my anger and dpression form my emotions and if i don't get drunk i am miseralbe and just want to go home and cry. I am a pretty good looking person if i must say so. I just ask why have i been dealt with this. I failed out of college because of learinig diablities and teachers and advisors had it out for me so i have never had a full time job this job i have now i only like because of the people i make 8.00 and hour and i want to quit but then i will be worse off now than i have been in the last year since i was unemployed for the last 4 years the hours are bad and so is the pay. I just beleive that evryone else on the planet has been dealt good things. But me i ask why.

 

[Flatscan82]

Hi i just joined this i have been diagonsed with depression which recently has turned into an addition of anger along with it. I feel my life has gone absolutley no where.

I have never dated i am 28 years old never had a girlfriend nevver any of that stuff eveyone else my age has done. I feel as if i am a whole waste. When i go out with work friends it just makes me mad and more depressed i tend to just get really fricken drunk and smashed to supress my anger and dpression form my emotions and if i don't get drunk i am miseralbe and just want to go home and cry. I am a pretty good looking person if i must say so. I just ask why have i been dealt with this. I failed out of college because of learinig diablities and teachers and advisors had it out for me so i have never had a full time job this job i have now i only like because of the people i make 8.00 and hour and i want to quit but then i will be worse off now than i have been in the last year since i was unemployed for the last 4 years the hours are bad and so is the pay. I just beleive that evryone else on the planet has been dealt good things. But me i ask why.

I get severe bouts of anger as well, this one time I was trying to study and I kept reading the same lines over and over again and it was not seeping in. I got so angry I ripped my 300 page text book in half]. Other times I get so angry that I seriously consider slitting my wrists. So I sort of know what you are going though. As for the dating part I suggest doing a speed dating thing. It may seem corny or stupid but it is good way to get out there and meet a lot of women and to test the waters.

Any way thanks for sharing, we are here for you.

 

[She]

Don't worry, happiness may be just around the corner. Please try to have hope. I was very lonely until the age of 26. My sister has never dated in her life and she is in her thirties now. But she does not give up hope.

I hope that you will meet someone soon.
God bless.

 

[mythrainbow]

Many things wrong with me and I don't even have a good reason, dude if there's anyplace you can come to it's definitely here. I feel your pain dude, I'll pray for you

 

[Mrs. Luther073082]

Do you exercise? If not, I think exercise would be a good way to get some of those negative emotions out. Also, do you go to any type of therapy? I guess if you could not afford therapy/do not have health insurance, there are support groups out there -- maybe those are free?

People say that depression is caused by anger turned inward. To be honest, I think the anger and depression need to be dealt with before you find a girlfriend.

 

[JohnR7]

i tend to just get really fricken drunk and smashed to supress my anger and dpression form my emotions and if i don't get drunk i am miseralbe and just want to go home and cry.

Proverbs 31:6
Give strong drink to him who is perishing,
And wine to those who are bitter of heart.

The Bible says to give alcohol to those who are perishing, to comfort them in their misery. Even God has compassion on those who are lost. What you need to do is get saved. You need to come to a saving knowledge of the truth in Christ Jesus our Lord. You need to give your life to Him and become a new Creation in Christ.

 

[sj84]

Proverbs 31:6
Give strong drink to him who is perishing,
And wine to those who are bitter of heart.

The Bible says to give alcohol to those who are perishing, to comfort them in their misery. Even God has compassion on those who are lost. What you need to do is get saved. You need to come to a saving knowledge of the truth in Christ Jesus our Lord. You need to give your life to Him and become a new Creation in Christ.

I agree entirely. I was also diagnosed with depression a while back but was determined not to take anti-depressants. I started reading the bible, and then eventually plucked up the courage to go to church. From that point on god saved me and I've never felt better. I made so many new friends and I play football with all the guys every monday. The exercise makes you feel better too.

I also used to drink with riends just to be cool, and to try and be more confident, but I didnt really enjoy it. I now don't drink and feel even better for it.

Trust me having a girlfriend won't make you feel any better either. I have a girlfriend and have done for over two years now. Don't get me wrong we love each other to bits, but there still felt like there was something missing in my life.

Since I found god I feel much better about myself and my relationship with my girlfriend hgas improved, even though she remains an aethist.

Things will get better mate, like JohnRZ says you just have to be saved

 

[JohnR7]

Trust me having a girlfriend won't make you feel any better either.

Paul and Jesus both teach that it is better to remain single if you can handle that.

1 Cor. 7:1
Now concerning the things of which you wrote to me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman.

Matthew 19:10-12
His disciples say unto him, If the case of the man be so with his wife, it is not good to marry. [11] But he said unto them, All men cannot receive this saying, save they to whom it is given. [12] For there are some eunuchs, which were so born from their mother's womb: and there are some eunuchs, which were made eunuchs of men: and there be eunuchs, which have made themselves eunuchs for the kingdom of heaven's sake. He that is able to receive it, let him receive it.

 

[sistagirl]

Hi i just joined this i have been diagonsed with depression which recently has turned into an addition of anger along with it. I feel my life has gone absolutley no where.

I have never dated i am 28 years old never had a girlfriend nevver any of that stuff eveyone else my age has done. I feel as if i am a whole waste. When i go out with work friends it just makes me mad and more depressed i tend to just get really fricken drunk and smashed to supress my anger and dpression form my emotions and if i don't get drunk i am miseralbe and just want to go home and cry. I am a pretty good looking person if i must say so. I just ask why have i been dealt with this. I failed out of college because of learinig diablities and teachers and advisors had it out for me so i have never had a full time job this job i have now i only like because of the people i make 8.00 and hour and i want to quit but then i will be worse off now than i have been in the last year since i was unemployed for the last 4 years the hours are bad and so is the pay. I just beleive that evryone else on the planet has been dealt good things. But me i ask why.

my brother......its alrite trust in the lord u are not a waste cause i tell u this in the eyes of our lord u are gold to him child to him.......i pray awesum father that u be with peter that he turns to u lord that he finds happiness in u and that u wipe away his tears he will wipe away his pain and restore it with a refreshment of ure ure love i pray god that you will be there for him amen your sista in christ

 

[jpeter77]

i've been going to therapy again. and taking deression meddicine again But i am so agitated recently it just makes my head want to explode. I feel as if i have had many and many missed opportunities, never graduated college because i was screwed over, and never loved never dated, never had a relationship, now i am embarassed just to strt doing things and i want to hit something, I want to exercise but i can't dnot motivated to want to join health club, but i have very low self-esteem, Basically it all boils down never had a good group of friends for encouragement, i also want a different job but can't motivate my self to find something different and it took me 4 years to get hired at this crappy job i have now which is only part time, i just frustrated and shut things out.

 

[BelovedWord]

Hi i just joined this i have been diagonsed with depression which recently has turned into an addition of anger along with it. I feel my life has gone absolutley no where.

I have never dated i am 28 years old never had a girlfriend nevver any of that stuff eveyone else my age has done. I feel as if i am a whole waste. When i go out with work friends it just makes me mad and more depressed i tend to just get really fricken drunk and smashed to supress my anger and dpression form my emotions and if i don't get drunk i am miseralbe and just want to go home and cry. I am a pretty good looking person if i must say so. I just ask why have i been dealt with this. I failed out of college because of learinig diablities and teachers and advisors had it out for me so i have never had a full time job this job i have now i only like because of the people i make 8.00 and hour and i want to quit but then i will be worse off now than i have been in the last year since i was unemployed for the last 4 years the hours are bad and so is the pay. I just beleive that evryone else on the planet has been dealt good things. But me i ask why.

I just want to put this out here for all to see and hopefully use. I have suffered from the very things that you and others are suffering from. I now offer FREE counseling to all who seek it. I am not trying to advertise or anything like that, but I want you to know that I offer this if you would like to use it. I am certified in Biblical Pastoral Counseling, as well as secular counseling, and addictions counseling. I am here if you need me.

In His Service,
Brian

 

[mythrainbow]

i've been going to therapy again. and taking deression meddicine again But i am so agitated recently it just makes my head want to explode. I feel as if i have had many and many missed opportunities, never graduated college because i was screwed over, and never loved never dated, never had a relationship, now i am embarassed just to strt doing things and i want to hit something, I want to exercise but i can't dnot motivated to want to join health club, but i have very low self-esteem, Basically it all boils down never had a good group of friends for encouragement, i also want a different job but can't motivate my self to find something different and it took me 4 years to get hired at this crappy job i have now which is only part time, i just frustrated and shut things out.

Props dude for going to therapy and taking the meds, dude remember one step at a time.

I will pray that the Lord will lead you to a job, and a good group of encouraging friends as well. We're here too, and ready to encourage .

I know what crippling embarassment is, I had it for a while, but just know that God can bring you through it, God can break the wall and break you free. But He won't do it all at once, one step at a time.

And you can combat your negative thoughts toward your self by reading the Word. Don't trust me but trust God, He is the one that will give you the understanding and truth you need to live and yes even thrive through each day.

God bless and keep you safe