Depressed/hopeless

[icredrum]

Prayer Or Something Please..i Don't Know Anymore

Can't Go Intotoo Much Detail...usingmy Phone. I'm Ina Bad Situation..can't Leave Him Right Now. I Am With Him All The Time. He Is Extremely Controling. I Have Pets I Can't Leave Behind. I'm So Lonely Too. I'm Depressed/ Suicidal.
Miss Talking...lonely I Guess.
Ps.
I'm Onlimited Time..if Possible Can Someone Hook Me Up To The Thread Women Who Struggle With...id Appreciate It.

I Have To B Careful What I Text Or Say..who I Talk Too. I'm With Him All The Time. He Talks Bad About Me...and All That Stuff. He Tells People I Hav Him On Chain... He's Abusive Verbally And Physically .
Prayer Too..thanks

 

[Okano]

Prayer Or Something Please..i Don't Know Anymore

Can't Go Intotoo Much Detail...usingmy Phone. I'm Ina Bad Situation..can't Leave Him Right Now. I Am With Him All The Time. He Is Extremely Controling. I Have Pets I Can't Leave Behind. I'm So Lonely Too. I'm Depressed/ Suicidal.
Miss Talking...lonely I Guess.
Ps.
I'm Onlimited Time..if Possible Can Someone Hook Me Up To The Thread Women Who Struggle With...id Appreciate It.

I Have To B Careful What I Text Or Say..who I Talk Too. I'm With Him All The Time. He Talks Bad About Me...and All That Stuff. He Tells People I Hav Him On Chain... He's Abusive Verbally And Physically .
Prayer Too..thanks

I'm very sorry you're in a bad situation. Is he your husband? If not you might consider getting help from some family. It's hard to be open about these things, but once you are things should begin to change.

I hope things become better for you very soon.

 

[miss-a]

I think this is the subforum you asked for:
http://www.christianforums.com/f233/

Please consider contacting a women's shelter near you. You do not have to live like this.

Prayers for you!
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[Krissy Cakes]

Praying for you

 

[Criada]

Please get out of there, sweetie - he isn't going to change. If you go to a women's shelter and tell them about your pets they will help you get them out.
Praying for you

 

[icredrum]

I Noe He Won't Change. I Can't Change Him Eithr. I Can't Leave My Situation. Not Yet. Not All Sheltrs Can Accommodate U Noe. Just Please Keep In Prayer
Thanks

 

[Criada]

It's really hard, sweetie, but you can leave. It will be very hard at first, but you'll get through and find a much better life
Praying!!

 

[icredrum]

I'm Sorry But U Don't Noe Me Nor My Situation. So Please Don't Judge Me Andthink Its So Easy To Pack Up And Leave. U R Not Nor Do U Noe My Situation. U Give Advice On What U Don't Know...
Every Situation Is Different And Unique.
I Would Appreciate If U Can Get Me In The Thread Of Woman Who Struggle With.... I Have No Access. Thanks
Life Really Sucks Right Now.. I Hate My Life.

 

[fragilewingz]

girl u gotta leave.. God wudnt want u 2 stay wid sum1 dats just gonna destroy u...u have to take courage in d Lord and jus lt packup while u still can. things wont get any better if be a martyr and stay. think of urself... its not selfish... if u dont ur gonna forget how it is to live..

 

[Sandycane]

Narcissistic Psychopath - that's the official name for it.

I know because I had the misfortune to get hooked up with someone like that.
I was lucky. I was with him for less than a year and we didn't have any kids and I had my own house to go back to. He was forced, financially, to leave the county.

The last time I saw this guy, I literally walked him backwards out of my house, with a baseball bat in my hand (that I purchased especially with him in mind). Even after that, he stalked me for a year after that with emails, letters, and phone calls.
He finally gave up and I'm sure he's found another victim to torture.
There is no getting away for most.

What worked for me was standing my ground and fighting back. He showed me he was actually a coward and a bully one night when he hit me and pushed me out of his house - by the time I stepped outside I was so mad I put down my purse and said, "You want to hit me? Come here!" know what he did? He stepped back into the house and locked the storm door.
He knew he was cooked then.

I don't know how you can get away, but I feel your pain.
(I had my pets with me at the time too and I know how you feel about leaving them behind)

 

[Sandycane]

I was searching for the original article I found way back then, but couldn't find it.
I found this instead:

(oh, I have to have 50 posts before I can post a link)
Do a Google search for:
The Gray Rock method of Dealing With Psychopaths

Wish I had seen this when I needed it.
Be The Gray Rock, girl!!