Most of the issues over these subjects arise when we try to play these various terms only one way. Usually the "good" term for "me" and the "bad/evil/wrath/damnation" terms for some other person.
The fact of the matter is much easier to come to grips with. We are all comprised of both good and evil. There is simply no honest way to get around this fact by spinning ourselves as only good because, you see, that is just a common LIE. But since the heart is deceptive above all things, Jer. 17:9, what do we really expect but lies and deceptions?
WHO wants to raise their hand and admit they have an evil conscience? Hebrews 10:22. Yeah, let's hear it for the truth of an evil conscience. Any takers? Should we come before God in Christ as a liar and say it's not there?
WHO wants to say that they think evil thoughts that defile them? Mark 7:21-23, Romans 7:7-13. Yeah, let's hear it for the truth. Any takers? No, not one?
WHO wants to claim their own sorry hides are in conflict with the Holy Spirit? Gal. 5:17. Yeah, let's hear it for the truth. Any takers? No?
Now for the really earth shattering one. WHO wants to claim that the tempter, our adversary and enemy tempts us internally, in our own minds and hearts, and that our own sin is actually "of the devil"? Mark 4:15, 1 John 3:8. Yeah, that one will leave a mark on you if you admit it, but alas, tis true.
It's not easy being a truthful believer. In fact I'd dare say the evil present within exactly none of us cooperates with God in Christ one little bit, even when we are speaking the truth.
But we can walk away from the table with honesty, which I consider to be a gift from Above
When we read about the good tree and the bad tree, are we only the good tree? Uh, no. We're all actually BOTH.
When we read about building our houses on rock or sand do we always and only do the rock side? Uh, no. That never happens. We all have things that need to sink in the storm.
When we read about goats and sheep in Matt. 25, why is it we never realize that when we're not doing sheep works we're doing goat works?
See the problem?
Jesus said man shall LIVE by every Word of God. Matt. 4:4, Luke 4:4, Deut. 8:3
You might find that you've been missing out on half the Bible. Read the bad stuff and be thankful that God is against EVIL, even if it hurts you. Be thankful He's that way, even if you're not.