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Development is largely irrelevant in the abortion equation. The point is whether or not any person has the right to incubate themselves in another person against their will. No one does, therefore the argument is moot.
Would you consider though that this person incubating inside another person, as you put it, was as a direct result of the host's actions, and as a result there might be some responsibility to it at that point? Kind of like Iraq maybe where the US tore down a country and now has to see it through?
 
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I already addressed that. The heart begins to beat within the first thirty days, and as little as twenty-five days.

Are you saying that it's wrong to kill a baby after 25-30 days?

Essentially, what you're saying by saying that the first heart beat marks sufficient development is that you're against all 2nd and 3rd trimester abortions and 2/3 of all 1st trimester abortions.

Other than that 1/3, I agree completely.

Told you it was a good idea ;)
 
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when its heart begins to beat. Look at the first post.
I dont think that when the heart starts beating is a reasonable amount of time since this is at about 30 days and most people dont know they are pregnant that early or they have just found out, I think that the "baby" should not be aborted once it is able to live outside of the mother, at that point if she doesnt want the baby labour should be induced then the baby can be adopted. Before the "baby" is able to live outside the mother I think the mother should have the right to have an abortion, if there is ever a time where a zygote can be taken from one persons body and be put into someone elses or somehow be artificailly grown outside the womans uterus then these options should be taken instead of abortion. I dont "agree" with abortion in that I wouldnt get one and I dont think the "baby" should be killed if there is another way that doesnt involve using someones body without their consent, however I do believe that everyone has a right to do what they want with their own body and stop someone else from using their body without their consent, even if it means the other person dies as a result.
 
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I do believe that everyone has a right to do what they want with their own body

But they don't have the right to do what they want to someone else's body.

and stop someone else from using their body without their consent, even if it means the other person dies as a result.

Implied consent when she decided to have sex.
 
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I dont think that when the heart starts beating is a reasonable amount of time since this is at about 30 days and most people dont know they are pregnant that early or they have just found out, I think that the "baby" should not be aborted once it is able to live outside of the mother, at that point if she doesnt want the baby labour should be induced then the baby can be adopted. Before the "baby" is able to live outside the mother I think the mother should have the right to have an abortion, if there is ever a time where a zygote can be taken from one persons body and be put into someone elses or somehow be artificailly grown outside the womans uterus then these options should be taken instead of abortion. I dont "agree" with abortion in that I wouldnt get one and I dont think the "baby" should be killed if there is another way that doesnt involve using someones body without their consent, however I do believe that everyone has a right to do what they want with their own body and stop someone else from using their body without their consent, even if it means the other person dies as a result.
Try holding a aborted baby while you wait for the baby to die. Then tell me that you're not morally and spiritually bankrupt.
 
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Try holding a aborted baby while you wait for the baby to die. Then tell me that you're not morally and spiritually bankrupt.

Well i'm not aware of how much pain a foetus feels during an abortion and neither are you, but i'd imagine little or none. This aside, and forgetting about religion for a minute, what damage has been done by killing a foetus?

The foetus will be dead so it can't possibly miss its own life. The mother may miss not having this child, but that is something she will have to live with, and ultimately her choice. The only way i can see where the lines are blurred here, is when the father wants the baby, and the mother doesn't. In that case, someone has to make a choice, and it has to be the mothers final choice in the end as she is the one carrying it.
 
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Well i'm not aware of how much pain a foetus feels during an abortion and neither are you, but i'd imagine little or none.

We know that babies do feel pain.

This aside, and forgetting about religion for a minute, what damage has been done by killing a foetus?

One has to wonder if, somewhere in Germany in 1938, someone didn't say "what's the damage in killing a Jew".

The foetus will be dead so it can't possibly miss its own life.

Doesn't that apply to everyone? By that logic, isn't it OK to kill anyone because they'll be dead and cannot miss their own lives?

The only way i can see where the lines are blurred here, is when the father wants the baby, and the mother doesn't. In that case, someone has to make a choice, and it has to be the mothers final choice in the end as she is the one carrying it.

Here's where that logic fails:

On the one hand, the father wants the child but the mother doesn't, so you say that she has a right to kill it.

Let's look at the other side.

Let's say that the mother wants the child but the father doesn't. So the mother goes ahead and allows the child to live.

Now, the father is on the hook for the financial responsibility for the child.

You can't say on the one hand that the mother can absolve herself of the responsibility for the child by killing it, but that the father does not have the same right.

I'm sorry, but no matter how politically correct you try to make it, there just is no way to kill a baby that does not open up a dozen moral cans of worms.

That's one of the reasons God tells us not to murder anybody.

Well this isn't a baby.

I take it your dad never had that special talk with you. What do you think it could be? A cat?

Completely different. By committing genocide, you put fear into the rest of the population

So, that's the only problem with genocide? Just putting fear into people? Killing them isn't bad enough, in itself?

A foetus can't fear abortion

Neither can an infant fear being murdered. Neither can a severely mentally handicapped person fear being murdered.

No, as other people can also miss the dead.

I see. So then, murdering innocent people is only wrong because others will miss them, and not because the person's life has inate value?

I think my analogy of 1938 Germany is looking more accurate every time you speak.



Well you can. The mother does have that right and the father doesn't. It may not seem that fair, but that is the way it is.

I'm not talking about the way it is or is not. I'm talking about what is morally right.

The father isn't the one who has to carry the child, so he can't demand that it be aborted.

Then he shouldn't have to pay.
 
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We know that babies do feel pain.

Well this isn't a baby.

One has to wonder if, somewhere in Germany in 1938, someone didn't say "what's the damage in killing a Jew".

Completely different. By committing genocide, you put fear into the rest of the population, plus there are many people who will miss their relatives or friends who are killed. A foetus can't fear abortion, and the only person who could possibly miss the foetus is the mother herself. But since she has made the decision, that is something she will have to live with.


Doesn't that apply to everyone? By that logic, isn't it OK to kill anyone because they'll be dead and cannot miss their own lives?

No, as other people can also miss the dead.


Here's where that logic fails:

On the one hand, the father wants the child but the mother doesn't, so you say that she has a right to kill it.

Let's look at the other side.

Let's say that the mother wants the child but the father doesn't. So the mother goes ahead and allows the child to live.

Now, the father is on the hook for the financial responsibility for the child.

Yes, i agree that's unfortuante for the father, if the mother wishes to go ahead and pursue maintenance.

You can't say on the one hand that the mother can absolve herself of the responsibility for the child by killing it, but that the father does not have the same right.

Well you can. The mother does have that right and the father doesn't. It may not seem that fair, but that is the way it is. The father isn't the one who has to carry the child, so he can't demand that it be aborted.

I'm sorry, but no matter how politically correct you try to make it, there just is no way to kill a baby that does not open up a dozen moral cans of worms.

Until the day that a foetus can be removed from a mothers body and kept alive, there will never be a satisfactory end to this debate.
 
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Morality and law are very different.
Differnent based upon your POV
Generally linked in some way, however.
Even Mao (depsite his blatant hipocrisy) thought his laws were 'right' (and therefore moral or upstanding, or correct)

In any case, my point is that regardless of the law, I think that there's nothing particularly wrong with shooting a stray dog, but there is something very wrong with shooting someone's pet.
Only because of personal connection to another Homo Sapien.
You said it yourself, a stray (NOT connected to an HS) can be shot or at least you think that there's nothing wrong with it. However, shooting a pet directly connected to another HS is is "very wrong".

Do you feel that shooting and killing wild whales is "wrong"? (and dont give me the "Yes it is because they're endangered" line because that is nothing more than an "argument of degrees")

Unless you're a vegetarian, I don't see how you can disagree. And since you're a tentacled man-eating monster, I think I'm onto a winner here.
FINALLY someone who gets the alien POV! :clap:



Of course not, but I think you deliberately misunderstand me.
Does a foetus place value in its own life? Can it desire life? I don't think it can. Because it can't, all its value is in the value placed upon it by others. So if it's wanted, it's wrong to kill it, and if it isn't, it isn't. Humanely killing and eating a chicken is probably fine, as long as it's not someone's beloved pet chicken.
O no I get your point
Your point is "does an adult homo sapien place value on such life"?
You ignore the chicken bred for slaughter (as opposed to a pet chicken) by placing specifically Homo Sapien value on it (and thereby ignore the inherent struggle to survive by the chicken or any other creature)
IOW, you seem to be placing your Homo Sapien values above the values of any other creature on this planet.

An adult human being is very different. An adult human being can desire to live and fear death. He or she places value in his or her own life, and as such you can't kill him or her with impunity.
Yes one can
The only thing one has to fear there is social taboos, plain and simple
You don't think chickens, or (by way of further exampe) rhinos, snakes, giraffes, turtles, and amoebas have a "desire: (read- 'drive') to live (exist)?
Are you willing to say that those organisms, which have demonstrated the paradigm of living/growing/procreating/etc are any different from a human embryo?
Quite frankly, Im waiting for everything to feed me, but I find this human hypocrisy quite intruiging.

I don't believe my life is sacred or that I have a right to it in any sense other than a legal one. In any case, I'm not sure how rights can be afforded to anything that doesn't have the capacity to know what a right is.
Like a household pet, right?
A favored cat or dog perhaps?

I know that I like living and I don't want to die; that's the only good reason I can think of for asking someone not to kill me. Death is only bad if it hurts and/or you know it's going to happen, and since a foetus, before a certain point, neither feels pain nor fears death, I see no reason not to kill it if that's what the mother wants to do.
Foetuses don't feel pain? The pain receptors aren't there?
Are you so sure about that?
Or does the pain and knowledge of death determine the right/wrong of the argument in your mind?
Now, you could say that both (lack of pain and desire for life) are needed in which case a foetus may not qualify (it can possibly feel pain, but most likely has no desire for life as we know it. But what about the octegenarian who is cranked up on morphine but wants to live?
In this case we have the opposite of the foetus that you talk about. To wit- one who has a desire to live but will most likely feel no pain upon euthanazia (sp?)


One or other.

Not that I actually care, I just like playing (for obvious reasons) "devils advocate)"
Mwauhahahahahahaha!!!!

IA IA and all that :)
 
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Development is largely irrelevant in the abortion equation. The point is whether or not any person has the right to incubate themselves in another person against their will. No one does, therefore the argument is moot.
You use the term "any person"
Implying at the very least that abortion includes the killing of a "person"

So noted :wave:

More 'people', more souls to reap :liturgy:
 
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Would you consider though that this person incubating inside another person, as you put it, was as a direct result of the host's actions, and as a result there might be some responsibility to it at that point?

I didn't know that women controlled their ovulation.
 
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Differnent based upon your POV
Generally linked in some way, however.
Even Mao (depsite his blatant hipocrisy) thought his laws were 'right' (and therefore moral or upstanding, or correct)

Well, my only point there was that morality and law can (and often should) be discussed separately. No biggie.

Only because of personal connection to another Homo Sapien.
You said it yourself, a stray (NOT connected to an HS) can be shot or at least you think that there's nothing wrong with it. However, shooting a pet directly connected to another HS is is "very wrong".

I think perhaps you misunderstand me.

Death per se isn't so bad, so shoot that stray dog if you want to. I would consider torturing it, however, very wrong also. Now you could quite reasonably argue that a stray dog with a litter of puppies waiting for it to bring home the bacon is a dog you shouldn't shoot, because you'd cause suffering by doing so. Again, my only point is that if no one misses the dog, and the dog doesn't suffer, there is no moral reason not to shoot it (although there may of course be personal or emotional ones).

Do you feel that shooting and killing wild whales is "wrong"? (and dont give me the "Yes it is because they're endangered" line because that is nothing more than an "argument of degrees")

I feel it's unfortunate for aesthetic and environmental reasons. I share with many others an aesthetic desire for natural biodiversity. I am also aware of the impact that considerable changes to biodiversity can have on the environment, which might be further detrimental to the aesthetics of the situation, and which may also negatively affect human beings more directly. I probably wouldn't go so far as to call it wrong, but I regard it as unwise.

FINALLY someone who gets the alien POV! :clap:

I try!

O no I get your point
Your point is "does an adult homo sapien place value on such life"?
You ignore the chicken bred for slaughter (as opposed to a pet chicken) by placing specifically Homo Sapien value on it (and thereby ignore the inherent struggle to survive by the chicken or any other creature)
IOW, you seem to be placing your Homo Sapien values above the values of any other creature on this planet.

Well, yes, I do, because to the best of my knowledge, only human beings have a concept of morality. If you can convincingly show me that some other creature (such as yourself) has moral sentiments, I will be very happy to include it within the sphere of beings whose opinions matter.

In any case, I do not think a chicken has values. It has biology, sure, but that's a different kettle of fish. Can a chicken feel wronged?

Yes one can
The only thing one has to fear there is social taboos, plain and simple
You don't think chickens, or (by way of further exampe) rhinos, snakes, giraffes, turtles, and amoebas have a "desire: (read- 'drive') to live (exist)?
Are you willing to say that those organisms, which have demonstrated the paradigm of living/growing/procreating/etc are any different from a human embryo?
Quite frankly, Im waiting for everything to feed me, but I find this human hypocrisy quite intruiging.

They certainly have a biochemical drive for life, as does a cabbage. But merely having some selfish genes does not make one sentient and does not bestow upon one moral sentiments. Humans are, to the best of my knowledge, the only creatures on earth with moral sentiments. So we are quite entitled, I think, to apply those sentiments in a partisan way. We consider our sentience, our self-awareness, to be of paramount importance when measuring degrees of suffering - and we're making the rules. So it's likely that we as humans are always going to be willing to sacrifice animals in order to further our own ends.

And the fact that chickens, rhinos, snakes, giraffes, turtles, and amoebas are no different from human foetuses in this sense is precisely the point I am making them. I can't find a rational reason for why killing these things painlessly is not wrong, unless someone or something will suffer because of their death.

Like a household pet, right?
A favored cat or dog perhaps?

Pets do not have a 'right to life'. They are no different from wild animals, except that they have the good fortune of someone having affection for them, which affords them a special status in human society. Animals, like humans, in fact, do not have natural rights; only human-given ones - which is why, in fact, they have certain rights that farm animals or wild animals do not. I don't think this is very hard to understand.

Foetuses don't feel pain? The pain receptors aren't there?
Are you so sure about that?

It is certainly likely that before a certain point, foetuses do not feel pain in the sense that we understand it. Either way, it seems to me that if as a society we're happy to execute animals in quite unpleasant and painful ways, the fact that it happens to be a human foetus under the knife should make little difference. I would have thought that it was worse to torture an adult chimpanzee than to abort a first trimester human foetus. The former has a much greater capacity for suffering. So species makes little difference in consideration of physical suffering.

Or does the pain and knowledge of death determine the right/wrong of the argument in your mind?
Now, you could say that both (lack of pain and desire for life) are needed in which case a foetus may not qualify (it can possibly feel pain, but most likely has no desire for life as we know it. But what about the octegenarian who is cranked up on morphine but wants to live?
In this case we have the opposite of the foetus that you talk about. To wit- one who has a desire to live but will most likely feel no pain upon euthanazia (sp?)

This is all rather confused. Let me state my case clearly.

Suffering should be minimised. (This is the basis of my ethics.)
Physical pain constitutes suffering.
Emotional pain, including fear of death and loss of someone or something beloved, constitutes suffering.

So in the case of your octogenarian, to threaten him with death would be to cause him suffering (and also, of course, all the other octogenarians about who don't want to die either). To kill him would also cause his loved ones suffering. So we have two good reasons not to kill him.

In the case of this foetus, we can certainly say that there will be no fear of death involved, because the foetus can't know it will be aborted, and doesn't have the capacity to understand such a threat in any case. This is in contrast with the emotional suffering of carrying an unwanted foetus to term. With regard to physical pain, I can but weigh up the relative degrees of pain that the mother and the foetus will experience. Giving birth is notoriously uncomfortable, especially if there are medical complications. So I think mothers have a significant claim to be suffering more than foetuses which are aborted.

In any case, I wholeheartedly support the improvement of abortion techniques to minimise foetus' suffering, just as I support the improvement of the techniques used to slaughter animals so that they too may be more humane.

One or other.

Not that I actually care, I just like playing (for obvious reasons) "devils advocate)"
Mwauhahahahahahaha!!!!

Playing with your food, eh? Despicable :p

IA IA and all that :)

I dunno what that means.
 
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Yet clearly there are good reasons not to kill senile people, even if they can't be considered human. It would terrify people who weren't senile yet; can you imagine living in a world where senile people are routinely killed? Wouldn't you worry about what might happen to you? And, of course, it would terribly hurt those who had loved ones who were senile.

Can foetuses worry about being aborted? No. Is an unwanted foetus a loved one of anyone? No. So we've found at least two explanations for why killing senile people is not okay but killing foetuses is.

So its ok to kill the unborn child because the mother doesn't love it? So if they don't love it they should just kill it.

The child can be adopted to adults who WILL love it though. So technically if the mother had an morals and mercy she would adopt the child to a loving family and that would fix your problem of "not being loved".
 
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Raise your hand if you are a product of a rape.

:wave:

I am. And I'm still here to talk about it, thankfully.

My first time having sex was considered a date rape, and I got pregnant. That baby is still alive, albeit with another family.

I now have four beautiful boys of my own.

Which side of abortion do you think I lean on?
 
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The majority of us at least follow a schedule when it comes to ovulation. Most women know when they have a higher chance of getting pregnant.

I didn't know that women controlled their ovulation.
 
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So its ok to kill the unborn child because the mother doesn't love it? So if they don't love it they should just kill it.

I do not say that they should kill it. I say that it is morally permissible for them to kill it.

But other than that, yes. If the foetus is not loved or wanted, and especially if it can be killed humanely, there is no reason not to kill it.

The child can be adopted to adults who WILL love it though. So technically if the mother had an morals and mercy she would adopt the child to a loving family and that would fix your problem of "not being loved".

It is not that lack of love makes it okay to kill a foetus; it is that love makes it not okay to kill it - just like there's nothing wrong with swatting a fly, unless it's your little brother's beloved pet fly.

Killing loved things causes suffering. If something is not loved, its death will not cause suffering. Therefore killing it is morally permissible. It has nothing to do with whether or not it will or could be loved in the future.
 
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So then only the mother's love counts in this case? What if the mother may not love the baby, but the father does?

This whole notion of "it's the woman's body, she gets to decide" is hogwash as far as I'm concerned. Two people are involved in getting pregnant.

If a woman chooses to keep her baby when the father doesn't want it, the father is still expected to pay child support, etc. They are often belittled and harassed because they had no desire to have this child. Yet if the mother doesn't want it, she can just basically throw it in the garbage.

The lack of logic there astounds me.
 
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So then only the mother's love counts in this case? What if the mother may not love the baby, but the father does?

This whole notion of "it's the woman's body, she gets to decide" is hogwash as far as I'm concerned. Two people are involved in getting pregnant.

If a woman chooses to keep her baby when the father doesn't want it, the father is still expected to pay child support, etc. They are often belittled and harassed because they had no desire to have this child. Yet if the mother doesn't want it, she can just basically throw it in the garbage.

The lack of logic there astounds me.

I agree that the imbalance is troubling, but the fact remains that it's the mother's body that has to go through nine months of considerable trauma, culminating with the fun-and-games of childbirth itself. We simply cannot give fathers the same degree of say in the decision to abort or otherwise, because their investment is much smaller. Can the emotional upset of a man whose partner terminates her pregnancy against his wishes really weigh up against both the emotional suffering of the mother carrying an unwanted pregnancy to term, and the physical suffering of pregnancy and childbirth? I'm really not sure that it can.

As soon as men are able to take over pregnancy and do all that themselves, they can by all means be afforded an equal say in whether or not a foetus is carried to term.
 
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See, that's furthering this idea that carrying a child for nine months is difficult and that childbirth is somehow this horrendous experience.

Having had five children, I can tell you, it is NOT horrific. Sure, of course there's always the horror stories, and unfortunately we hear more about those than the good stories.

I have been fortunate. I carried all my pregnancies well, and aside from my last baby being born five weeks early, I've had no complications from birth.

Giving away my first child did take some strength. It WAS hard giving her up after bonding with her for nine months. I won't downplay that AT ALL. But that was all outweighed by the fact that God had so wonderfully blessed this baby with a loving family, and likewise had blessed a loving family with such a beautiful baby.

Being an adult is not easy. Sex and pregnancy are adult issues. They are not meant to be easy breezy. We think long and hard about whether we want to have children or not.

Some people, however, think more seriously on what kind of car they're going to get than who they're sleeping with. Abortions only add to the notion that we really don't need to care about that because getting rid of the responsibility of having sex is only a Planned Parenthood clinic away.
 
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See, that's furthering this idea that carrying a child for nine months is difficult and that childbirth is somehow this horrendous experience.

I've gotta say, i've seen a woman in labour on tv, and it sure doesn't look like a walk in the park. One question, is it more traumatic on your body to be pregnant or to not be pregnant?

Some people, however, think more seriously on what kind of car they're going to get than who they're sleeping with. Abortions only add to the notion that we really don't need to care about that because getting rid of the responsibility of having sex is only a Planned Parenthood clinic away.

You mean getting rid of the responsibility of falling pregnant presumably. I don't think there are too many people out there who consciously think of abortion as a form of contraception. Looking at it from a cold hearted point of view, apart from a little amount of possible pain to the foetus, what damage is really done by having an abortion? If the mother is the only person who knows about the pregnancy, then only she has to live with the loss, and that is and should be her choice...
 
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